A comment relating to the "everything is happening twice" theme" - someone mentioned that they hoped that since Willow ressurected Buffy first thing, there was a chance that Tara might be resurrected as a bookend to it . . . however, I've heard a persistent rumor that the first thing Willow does with her magic is save Buffy's life, which, if true, strikes me as a more likely pairing - especially since Willow apparently is going to try to ressurect Tara and fail at least once . . . I'm still devoutly hoping that Tara comes back somehow, though, and believe she will. I just think it's more likely to be a thematic bookend to the "Willow and Tara reunion" section (fingers crossed, hoping Tabula Rasa doesn't count as one that already happened.)
I'm actually enjoying the season so far. The writing's been good and several of the episodes have been top notch. Yes, it's been incredibly brutal on pretty much all the characters, but I think I understand why . . . someone recently pointed out that last year they battled a god, and how do you top that? Well, you can't, and you shouldn't. The "battling a powerful monster intent on destroying the world" thing has pretty much reached its highest potential already on the show, and is now kind of played out. So, they're trying something new - having this episode being about the Scoobies battling their own personal demons, to the extent that the Scoobies themselves become the Big Bads.
To go that far, that means things have got to get just about as bad as they can possibly get before they get better. It means throwing enough at the characters that they start to give in to feelings of rage (Willow), vengfulness (Anya), fear (Xander), depression (Buffy), rebellion (Dawn), and violence (possibly de-chipped Spike), and at least temporarily getting rid of the characters with cooler heads and wiser outlooks (Giles, Tara). It takes a lot to get someone who starts out on the side of the heroes to go that far, and so they've thrown a lot at the characters in a fairly unrelenting way. But plenty of people go through very dark patches in their lives and have to go through a lot before they come out the other side, and I don't think it's unfair to take a season of a long-running and complex show to play that out.
The key to that statement is, of course, the whole "coming out the other side" part. If they don't (Willow stays dark, Tara stays dead, etc.) I'll agree with everything nasty that's been said about this season - it's just been pointless brutality. But if the characters do get through it, and come out the other side intact and, presumably, back on the side of the angels, then the season has been about how bad things can get when the evil is yourself and your friends: much, much worse than when the evil is easy to find, fight, and conveniently wears black hats or pointy horns. I respect that as a theme, and as a place to take the show.
So, I'm going to wait and see where they take this before I condemn the show, even if a couple of eps this season have left me feeling physically bruised; I'm perfectly willing to deal with a hard road as long as it ends up going somewhere.
--- KR