posted 02-28-2001 12:10 EST (US) Wow . . . so much to think about and comment on above. Wiccie, thanks for the hug. You have an interesting perspective. I would add that people do weird things when something this horrible happens, so maybe that's why X/A pull away at that moment? Which brings me to . . . Sean, welcome. I understand exactly what you mean. After what Xander came home and told Anya immediately after Riley flew away, you have to believe that they *do* love each other even though they're awkward about saying it. Corana, I'll now pass along to you the hug that Wiccie offered me. I know, I *know*, just exactly what you're feeling, especially Anya's speech. I could not have put it better than the way you did. Just as you're recovering, I think that I'll be recovering from that speech for a long time. You guys will probably laugh at me, but that speech is almost on a par with "To be or not to be." It has an animal, anguished immediacy about it that a more contemplative setting could never capture. Whoever characterized Anya as the "id" hit it dead on. And as for you, April, my favorite fellow month, all I can say is that after the scene you wrote a few weeks back on " I D-d-do," I will never argue with you about the essence of romance. Especially if you can cite to Romeo and Juliet as authority. Your description above of what is going on between W and T, both before and afer the kiss as well as during, nearly brought me to tears. I think the only point on which we differ is what I intended to convey with the word "romantic." In this case, I meant the word to connote what someone on this board called "hot slipperies" as opposed to "warm fuzzies." Now I haste to add that the things that usually melt me savor much more of warm fuzzy rather than hot slippery, though a judicious use of the latter can be most welcome. I guess that I meant to give "romantic" an erotic spin, and I can't see that the circumstances of this ep were conducive to erotic. At least Romeo and Juliet had a balcony scene, and so, too, have W and T had their balcony scene, but not last night. OTOH, I guess that it isn't a stretch at all to imagine W/T or X/A or any other normal couple making love that night as a way of pushing back the shadows. But my ideal time to make love would be in the *absence* of shadows, when all's right with the world, if you see my point, and last night was anything but that. And I will heartily agree that what we saw between W and T in that scene, and especially during the kiss, was a love and an emotional attraction that goes *far* beyond mere sex, and that, in itself, perhaps, can be seen as erotic (although I don't think that I could have seen it as such during the actual ep. Maybe during reruns?) In sum, I want to be bad and take up a little extra bandwidth and reprint something I posted earlier today in another thread, because I want to make sure that all of y'all see it. (Please, moderators, don't hit me . . . I'm shaky enough today as it is, and I promise to be good in the future.) Here it is: I'm just in awe of, and amazed by, all of you guys. You all come across as being so intelligent, so sensitive, so perceptive . . . You spot things on the show--details, and meanings, and metaphors--that I could never see in a hundred years, and yet when you mention of them I feel like a fool for not having seen them. You enrich my understanding of the show, and thus of life, profoundly. And above all, when something as incredibly beautiful as the kiss happens, to see your whole-hearted support of something that would turn off so many people out there, is tremendously supportive for me. It saddens me that there are people who would deny the basic goodness and incredible inner beauty of Tara and Willow, and the love that they have for each other; and it terrifies me that there are others who don't (or even worse, can't) perceive/recognize it as love. W/T are such beautiful people . . . this can't be wrong . . . and those who condemn them frighten me. Thanks to all of you for letting me know that, when I want to burst into tears at the beauty of it all, that there's nothing wrong with me for feeling that way. [This message has been edited by november (edited February 28, 2001).] |