It's all the cute women have boyfriends Friday, MKF 10/4/02

[MsTizzyFantastico]

OK, now I don't have a whole lot of experience in the dating area unfortunately, but I've had more than enough crushes on straight girls! There wasn't a single out, lesbian in my high school, so that was pretty inevitable. I do however have two friends, one of whom is bi and the other who is straight who are in a relationship right now. Actually, they've been together over a year. It's been really rough for them at times, especially when my straight friend's paretns found out, but they're both happy for the moment.
As for the hair thing, I love Willow and Tara's hair any way they put it, but my favorite would have to be Willow with the slightly above shoulder length hair, and Tara with long, gorgeous, hide behind hair.

[Tara22]

oh! I aggree! love their hair the way it is,

they both look so good, and they compliment each other.

Will deffinatly looks good with the shoulder length hair and don't even get me started on Tara's

[KISMIC]

Hmm I love the "idea" of long hair - it's looks nice, you cxan do so many things with it, etc - however I just can't stand my hair any longer than my shoulders. It's so much to handle and blow-waving takes ages, so short hair is just so much simpler.

Willow and Tara. Hmm well I originally loved Willow/Aly's really short hair, all the way up to 'The Body' curly hair. However now that she's grown it and curled it I love it more. Now Tara, first off I loved it blonde and I've seen the screencaps from 'Take It Easy' and I just love her with the 'lil bob-cut, so cute, otherwise I like her hair as it was around 'Tabula Rasa', mid-length, lighter brown and the hair thing she had was just a bonus!! Also out of who would be most likely to shave it all off - Willow. Definately, no matter how more outgoing Tara's become I jsut don't think she could do without her hair.

[GiftofAmber]

I love long hair. Always have. I think it has something to do with the horrendous short hair cut that my mother gave me when I was little. All the girls I've fallen for have had long hair. Usually straight, but occasionally bi. I have very much learned the lesson not to date someone who actually has a boyfriend though. Mostly...

Willow would be the more likely one to cut her hair, but I don't want either of them to cut her hair. They are perfect the way they are.

[sexy bexy]

Quoting Giftofamber: "I have very much learned the lesson not to date someone who actually has a boyfriend though."

Oh yes! Me too. That's a good point. Only talking from personal experience again, but there's a big difference between deciding to try with a woman who was previously straight, and trying/waiting for a straight woman with a boyfriend! I'd say be very careful about that one.
Apart from the heartache caused by infidelity, to all parties, if their feelings are really serious for u, they'd end their current relationship and give it a whole-hearted try with you. If they do not want to end their current relationship with a guy, you have to wonder if they'd have the strength needed to deal with all the emotional/practical complications caused by their first gay relationship.
Again, always go in with your eyes open - know/be honest with yourself.

[Mrs Vertigo]

Oh my god, I LOVED the punk kittens! Go you!

And, umm, dating a woman with a boyfriend? Now how does [i:9e5966a25d] that[/i:9e5966a25d] work? I mean, with the whole boy and serious significant other things going on in boyfriend, that ought to make logistics just a [i:9e5966a25d] little[/i:9e5966a25d] tricky. But hey, cheers to you for swinging it without getting decked which, yknow, is pretty much best I could hope for if I ever dated a woman with a boyfriend. Combine my [i:9e5966a25d] ingenious[/i:9e5966a25d] handling of relationships and impeccable ability to stay out of trouble and you get the whole bruising his fist with my face chances.

[sexy bexy]

Mrs Vertigo
I was actually saying it was BAD to date women with boyfriends, and that I DONT recommend it.
I was actually responding to an earlier posts, which came about from the question "Should you fall for/try with straight girls". The conversation invariably moved on to "What happens if you fall for them and they've got boyfriends".
I'm sorry if I did not make myself clear, as you did not seem to understand the point I was making.

[Mrs Vertigo]

Oh, no, you were perfectly clear it was all past tense and not recommended. I was just impressed that it was actually done. Mustve been a toughy to handle, is all Im saying. I mean, I did the in love with a straight deal, and she had a boyfriend. And they were both my best friends, and it was hell to work it out which they didnt and I didnt and eventually the whole thing blew up to jagged-edged little pieces. Just to think, if I had been dating her on top of all I would have probably gotten the crap beaten out of me several times... by her, most likely.