It's First Kiss Friday, Miss Kitty Fantastico!

[Rosenberg]

Ill second that "want a g/f" and raise ya a "im getting to old to keep looking"

LOL Friskylez. I hear ya. Believe me, I can relate to that.

[Kalita]

Well, I had a lovely kiss with a (regrettably straight) nice girl back in high schol that I will always remember fondly.

I didn't know her well, but we were hanging around kinda alone and stuff and talking about sex, y'know, the usual high school material. It basically popped out that I was pretty sure I was gay, and she asked me if I'd ever kissed a girl. I said no, and she asked if I'd like to try, just to see. I was getting kinda protest-y and embarassed, but she laughed it off, saying she'd never kissed a girl either so it'd be the first time for both of us.

It was a nice experience and she was real sweet about it, too. And kind of depressing when I think about it now, cuz I still don't have a real girlfriend....

Anyway, it's apparently System Administrator Appreciation Day, though nobody at work seemed to celebrate it (I didn't get any extra appreciation than usual, at any rate). I would like to give a shout-out to the Mods here on the Kitten - they aren't SysAdmins in the strictest sense, but they're the closest we've got, so Three Cheers for them all the same. Good job, guys!

[jraff]

On a totally different subject (and possibly quite off topic as well, but, hey, it's the daily thread, innit?).

I just came back from a gig from the breeders, and at some point, they asked us if we watched tv. Because they, as a band, watch tv, too much, they said.

And then launched into... the theme from buffy.

I was a happy giraffe

[TwiLightJoy]

Ah, first kisses. My first ever kiss was with Yucky Neighbor Boy. To this day seeing him makes me shudder. *shudders* Ew. And now he's married and has 2 kids. Ew!

My first girl-kiss was in college. It was very nice, she is incredibly sweet and is still a very close friend. There's really no way to tell it without it sounding really weird but me and this guy and her all were pretty into each other. She had a boyfriend at the time, but wanted to break up with him. The guy and I kind of jokingly were like "when she breaks up with him, she'll kiss me first" for such and such reason. Well after she broke up with the guy, we all spent the night in my room and suffice it to say she kissed me first, and it was very very nice, can't even compare to kissing any boy, but then I felt bad coz the guy was jealous because of that. It was stupid and complicated and we were together for about a year, all three of us rooming together before they both dumped me.

I still roomed with them both (and more with the awkwardness) and eventually met my One And Only online. Like a year after I was dumped, I finally had the courage to ask my girl how serious we were getting, we'd been talking for like 6 months and I had been crushing on her, and asked her to be my valentine like a month in advance. So we decided we were gonna be exclusive, and we planned to meet up that summer during our vacations.

We spent the better part of 2 days together, and she was completely amazing but I was still too shy to kiss her. Then the second night I was staying at her hotel with her, and we played video games and watched movies we don't actually remember ... but I think it was about a seeing eye dog or something. We curled up to go to sleep, and I snuggled up to her and kissed her shoulder, and she turned slightly and we kissed. It was so ... *sigh* sweet and perfect .... I won't go on about it coz I've already had a really long post coz I'm on a break from my next chapter, fights are hard to write. Smoochies are easier to go on forever about. I think I need to write smoochies soon. Anyway there's my story.

~Joy

[momentum]

Hey Jraff I like the breeders. I've never seen them live - They cancelled their Arizona show on this tour - but I have heard about them doing the Buffy theme. How neat! I'm actually not too sad about the cancellation though, because Sleater-Kinney is playing here in Tucson the same night... it saves me a drive up to Phoenix, at least.

[Lindy]

Ach, everybody's smoochie stories are so sweet. Even the ones of those who think they aren't sweet Warms my heart.

[friskylez]

Hey Momentum, Just wanted to say howdy to another Arizonan, Im in Phoenix..

[Willowmere]

I was 14, and I met her on the bus coming back from a school trip. We'd seen [i:63ea2f8136] The Diary Of Anne Frank[/i:63ea2f8136]. The two things I remember most clearly were clutching my best friend Ashley at the end of the play like a drowning person, while we both sobbed so wretchedly that we annoyed the people behind us, and sitting beside Tamara, admiring her long dark brown hair. To this day, I still prefer brunettes with long hair.

Tamara and I hit it off and made a date to go to a playground hidden in a side street for a picnic lunch during lunch break at school. We stopped at a corner store on the way and bought candy.
The day was silvery and overcast and it started to rain, so we took shelter in the little playhouse in the park and ate and talked. Then we went on the swings when the rain slowed. The air felt humid and the cloth of my jacket was all soft from the damp. It was so romantic.
As we were preparing to leave, Tamara walked up ahead of her, her coat still undone. I called her name, ran up to her and did up two buttons. Then I looked into her eyes and kissed her.
It was perfect. Sweet and soft and.... the thought still makes my insides melt. On the way back to school we held hands and I said; "So are we girlfriends now or what?"
I thought I was going to die when she smiled at me.

[areslei]

I'll have to agree that W/T first kiss came before TIIT.

First kiss...well, with a boy...middle school. first boyfriend. only ever official boyfriend. He was/is such a sweetie, but I must say I didn't care much for the kissage. It was his first kiss, too, and we didn't know what in the hell we were doing. Disaster. First girl...that one I can never forget. Sweet 16, up in CO for an Ani concert in Red Rocks w/ my sweetheart. We weren't 'together' then. We were talking, laying down on the bed. She thought I just looked so cute. She kissed me on the cheek, I kissed her back as she tilted her head...kinda missed her cheek and touched up with her chin. I, being a perfectionist, had to remedy that by trying for her cheek again. Kissage was good. found the lips. she found mine. repeat a few times. and thus was the beginning of our 'togetherness'.

[Jennifer]

My first kiss was with a boy, I was 14. I really didn't want it to happen, and was hoping he'd get the hint. He didn't. It wasn't even romantic, or anything. I remember I kept thinking "I wonder why all the girls make such a big deal out of kissing boys, if this is what it's like". Bleh. My first kiss with a girl was amazing. If I had any any doubts about me being a lesbian, once I kissed Tina, that was it. I was 17. It probably would've been better if we weren't slightly (okay, more than slightly) drunk. Then again...
Happy Friday Kittens. Even though Friday is already over for most other people, and only lasts another 10 minutes for me.

[xita]

My first kiss was with a boy, I was 10 or so.... My older sister and her friends played stupid kissing games.. where everyone crosses their fingers and if you caught someone with their fingers uncrossed you could ask them to kiss. And they'd have to kiss you. If you caught them twice you could french. It was silly, but me and this boy he was like 10 or so too we were playing hide and go seek with the older siblings. I think they played that with us to get rid of us. Cause they came for us. We got bored.. and played the kissing game. Eventually we had to leave our hiding spot cause they never came to get us.

After years of kissing boys then a no kissing period, it wasn't till I was 18 that I was fortunate enough to finally kiss a girl.. and sigh.. what a difference. And that first girl 12 years later, is still my girl We'd spend 2 weeks apart after confessing our feelings for each other right before I took off to college. Some heated phone calls and letters and within 2 weeks I managed to come down to see her hee, I took her for a ride in my car and we were kind of being shy around each other. We talked for a while, then I finally got the nerve and said "am I ever going to get my first kiss?" and then I did I had waited way too long was not going to wait one more second!


w/t kissed by TIIT for sure!

[AutumnT]

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And that first girl 12 years later, is still my girl

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[/quote:dc6304dc1c] I'm still with the first girl I kissed too now 12 years. Must be good karma.

[MadeinNZ]

Are you sure you two aren't going out with each other? Cause that would explain it.

[kukalaka]

I love this thread *gets dreamy eyes*

I've kissed several guys and I always felt like "Hmm, it's rather nice", but it still left me wondering if that was it. No icky feeling, but not fantastic either. I actually started wondering whether that great feeling I was supposed to have was just some kind of cultural myth, but reading your posts gives me hope I just haven't tried with the right person yet

Did I mention I want a gf too?

Just a little sidenote: I had been with my only real boyfriend for 1.5 years and I got to know he thought I was a good kisser about half a year after we split up from a good friend of both of us. And he didn't tell me once during our time together. Go figure.

[relativegirl]

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I'm still with the first girl I kissed too now 12 years. Must be good karma.

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Or you and Xita are amazing kissers.

If staying with the first girl you kissed is the standard, then my karma sucks.

[alyamber4ever]

Ok, first kiss. I remember mine soooo well. I was 12 and she was my best friend. We were in her room one day after school. We were sitting on her bed trying to think of something to do. We were talking about boys, cuz, Yes, at the time I was still pretending to like boys. I figured if I CAME OUT at 12 yrs old......nobody would believe me. *LOL* Anyhoo, we got to talking about kissing and the whole 'have you ever kissed a boy' thing. Then all of the sudden...she asked me if I'd kiss her. And, OF COURSE i said yes. We kissed,...then again...then again. This whole deal continued on for like a year. Then we kinda drifted apart as friends do sometimes. We went about 4 or 5 years without speaking to eachother. And just recently we started talking again. She has a boyfriend,...and is happy. So, that's good. I'm still searchin' for my girl. I'm hopin' she's out there somewhere.

I think Willow and Tara's first kiss was in TIIT. I think when Tara shuts the door after Willow steps into her room.....they should have kept the camera going on them. I know we would have seen a first kiss there somewhere.

[Loco2]

dammit! i came back! it's like a magnet to me! and my first kiss was with a guy. it doesn't make me shudder, but it wasn't too pleasant. well, i had to see, first, didn't i? but my first real kiss was also with a guy, but i pulled back disgustedly and thought, 'right, that's it! i am truly and wholly gay'

and am still awaiting that first girl kiss, which is the [b:3bc816a4c4] real[/b:3bc816a4c4] one, if you get me. *sigh* well, i've come a long way, at least. hopefully will become more confident still, and be able to make a move. 'cos if i wait, i have a feeling it will never happen. grrr.

steph.
(who is sulking harder, if that's possible)

edited to add: i came out at twelve, first to my best friend 'cos she told me first that she thought she was, so it was really easy. but then again by accident a year later yelling at the guy (who i shudder to think i kissed) 'well, i'm a lesbian, so there!' when he was trying to defend himself for kissing me. i think i won that argument, don't you?

[pikachu1060]

You have such great stories, we should do short movies about this, i'm sure it's have a lot of success;-)

Well, as for my first kiss, as i was thinking about it, i was going to say that it was with a boy when i was 10, but then i remembered this: when i was like 5 or 6, i was with my best friend (who still is my best friend: we've know each other since we were 2 and half and still hang together a lot), and we were playing at mom and daddy (don't know if there's a name for that stupid kid game in english). Anyway, she was the dad, cause she looked like a boy, and i was the mom. And then, we decided that in order to really play the game, we had to kiss! So we did... My god, i can't help blushing when i think about that. We were so ridiculous. She had seen a movie, were a couple kissed and she told me we had to move our head from the right to the left, and then from the left to the right... So we were there, right-left-right-left while kissing. After that day, we did it a lots of time, more for practise than play.
But my real first kiss was with a boy when i was 10, we had been to the swimming pool and after that, he came back at my house with me. And we were in my room and none of us would dare kiss the other. Then, we finally agreed to do it. But thinking back of it, i think it was cute...
My first french kiss was a year later, still with a boy, and it was awful. We were in the school toilet (yerk). That year, i practised a lot, then nothing for 4 years.
When i was 15, i met this cute girl and we began hanging out a lot. She was older (21) and had a boyfriend. For a year, i was with them all the time, and i knew it was lot more than friendship. One night, we were all totally drunk (yeah, here in Belgium, there's no age to drink alchool), and everyone began to kiss everyone. And i kissed her. Wow, that was the most incredible kiss of my life. She had such soft lips... Then, on my 16th birthday, drunk again, i told her i was in love with her, which i obviously was. But there were witnesses and the morning after, i couldn't remember much of that night except for that declaration. I was so ashamed that other people had heard this... I guess i was not ready to come out. So, i picked the first boy i could find and slept with him. And he happened to be this girl's boyfriend. That was the worst mistake of my whole life. She never heard about it, but everyone else did. So, my reputation was safe. I managed to convice everyone including myself that i was straight. But at what cost. I couldn't look at her in the eyes anymore. So we lost touch and i still regret it.
Then, i didn't date at all for 2 years, and after that, i met a guy and we get together. i stayed with him for 2 and a half year and that was like hell. I still can't figure out why i stayed with him so long.
And 2 years ago, i went in ireland to study for 3 months. So i was far away from my boyfriend, and i met this incredible girl. She was (and still is) straight, but she made me understand who i really am. When i came back from dublin, i told my boyfriend i was gay and we broke up (obviously).
Since then, i've been with one girl, and our first kiss was like WOW. I met her on the net, and we'd been dating a few times. I was at her place and i was going to leave. So, he kissed me goodbye. Wooow, i couldn't feel my legs under me. Then i went back home and couldn't sleep at all that night.

As for willow and tara, i picture willow taking the initiative, and i see it as a soft, passionate kiss... I agree it should have been around TIIT.

[Dumbsaint]

LoL

RG, okay, let's talk about first kiss karma. Heh. During college I let the first girl I ever kissed, years after the fact, move into the house I was living in with her then partner, two dogs, and two cats. My roommate at the time and I had been screwed over royally by a couple of our other roomies, who had each moved out on little or no notice, and we were desperate for the extra rent money. However, the thing my first kiss girl neglected to tell me was that her girlfriend was a psycholiciously codependent, virulently jealous, drunkenly belligerent, emotionally and physically abusive, and generally not nice type person. They lived with us for three months, during the course of which we would come home to smashed glasses laying in shards about the kitchen, yelling and screaming and crying, and among other things, the both of them gone for up to 24 hours at a time leaving their pets locked in their bedroom because they didn't trust us to go in there and let the dogs out to relieve themselves. I had to call the cops on them twice, the first time having awoken ass-early to the sounds of aforementioned first kiss girl being smacked around in our living room, the wall of which bordered the wall to my bedroom right next to my bed (I could hear her being thrown up against it, right next to my head; nice, eh?), and after having been, myself, verbally and physically threatened by said drunken abuser, who I'll add was about four times my size and advanced on me as though she were about to kick the crap out of me. (I'm leetle. Like, Aly-size, leetle.) Long story short, due to the immensely screwy California landlord-tenant laws, and first kiss girl's refusal to press charges against her abuser, they got to live with us rent free for an extra month and a half, and still owe us an obscene amount of money in back-rent and bills that I expect to see again some time after Joss wins his first Emmy.

How's [i:286af599b6] that[/i:286af599b6] for first kiss karma? And I still managed to find myself a good one. See? Anyone can.

[AutumnT]

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Are you sure you two aren't going out with each other?

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[/quote:b97069fe94] LOL yes, I tend to like RelativeGirl's take on it myself.

[xita]

That would be funny if one day I found my gf was going by the online name of Autumn haha


no but really no.. hee

[Ittybittykitty]

I have yet to get snogged by a girl(or anyone)...although I have had a few "almost kisses". (You know where you're both pretty sure the other person wants to kiss and you lean in and that last little bit of doubt kicks in and you both pull back leaving this awkward silence and bewilderment because you were sure that this time you were gonna grow a pair and kiss them anyway?)

I think I'm going to register my membership in the "I really would like a GF" club-seeing as I really would like one.

[MadeinNZ]

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That would be funny if one day I found my gf was going by the online name of Autumn

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[/quote:a09f37d18c] Can you imagine? It would be like "Ah hon, if I were to say the word 'Autumn', what would this mean to you......Ah hon, are you OK ..... Are you laughing or crying?"

[relativegirl]

Jumpin Jehosophat [b:d68a5c2cbc] Julia[/b:d68a5c2cbc]! Not only do we share the bad first kiss karma, but I think our First Kiss Girls ended up dating the same psychotic lesbian!

My First Kiss Girl eventually became First Everything Girl including First Time Falling in Love Girl. Which was wonderful for as long as it lasted. But then FKG started to cheat (and thus became First to Break My Girl) with an evil paranoid pill-poppin PsychoDyke who clearly crawled out of the same inferior gene pool as Julia's Psycholicous ex-roomate.

After many many [i:d68a5c2cbc] many[/i:d68a5c2cbc] months of relationship angst and drama, FKG and I broke up and FKG and PsychoDyke became an official couple. Which is where any sane human being would realize we've reached the end of this movie, she got the girl, roll credits. But not PyschoDyke.

PsychoDyke became obsessed with the idea that FKG would run back to me, or cheat with me or something. So to prevent this oh-so-likely scenario, PsychoDyke started following me around, cornering me when I was alone and beating me up. This escalated into a 2-3/week occurrence, usually when PsychoDyke was drunk or trippin'. I was a full grown woman living the life of little girl who gets beat up on the playground everyday for her lunch money. It was bizarre and extremely ridiculous.

The kisses and gay love were nice while it lasted though.

[roamin]

sounds like RG has the makings for the start of a new thread - perhaps something along the lines of "evil girlfriend Sunday" or "bad choice Monday". Heaven knows I've made some bad choices. I had one ex that my friends simply referred to as 'the disease'.

[theatremouse]

wow. that's like uber scary bad first kiss karma...... mine only falls along the lines of "i'm a dumbass who continually lets herself be used by the same person, and yet still manages to feel bad every time it results in the crushing unimportantness of me" type deal......which continues on this Fine Saturday Evening........

bitter much?

egh.

[Dumbsaint]

RG, so nice to know that we share fucked-upedness in our trauma-infested love lives. Heh. And yes, it does sound like our PsychoTroglodykes crawled out from under the same pondscummy rock. My first kiss girl was also my first girlfriend, first puppy love type deal, and my first lover. I was fifteen at the time, newly out to both myself and the world, and of course, never imagined that she'd cause that kind of drama in my life. Even right after we broke up.

But ya know what? Until this week, she counted as my longest relationship. Today is the 28th, meaning I've been with Jerri for just over five and a half months. Record broken. Fuckin' finally. Heehee.

[Loco2]

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it does sound like our PsychoTroglodykes crawled out from under the same pondscummy rock.

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ROTFL!!! that's brilliant. hilarious. but then, i'm strange.

egh, what can you do?

steph (who is still grinning)