I saw a chat transcript thingy for the Bronze Beta chat with all the writers of the show, heres a little clip from one of the writers (not sure which..sorry! I think its DeKNight)
<< I said a lot of things on the Succubus Club. And yes, I joked a lot, because thats who I am I use humor when things get tense. Perhaps I should have toned it down, but thats just who I am. Im sorry if I hurt anyones feelings or if they thought I was being disrespectful to their pain. But a lot of people are ignoring the most important thing I said: We treated Tara like a real character. And yes, we killed her because it advanced the story arc of one of the main characters. But to say that Tara cant be killed because shes a lesbian, or because shes good, or a wicca, or a woman is totally unacceptable to me. Shes a character, and thats not to diminish anyones emotional attachment to her. We try very hard to make the viewers attached to ALL our characters. Thats part of what we do. As for those who are happy that the lesbian got what she deserved these are the people I hold contempt, loathing, and disgust for. Thats just plain ignorance and hate, and I openly call for them to stop watching the show and any show I ever work for. We killed a character for story reasons not because of her sexual orientation. I truly find that suggestion offensive, and anyone that thinks that should be ashamed. We presented Tara as a person, in a relationship that was filled with ups and downs. Not a gay relationship, not a straight relationship just a normal relationship in an abnormal world. It was beautiful, it was as real as we could make it, and Im very proud of it. And yes, things ended badly for Tara but not because she was a lesbian. In the Buffyverse, happiness is almost always the harbinger of doom. And she was happy. And she will be missed.
*gone for real this time* >>
1- Just to advance story? They could have done it some other way, and if they loved her sooo much (as they seem to say) she would not be "Gone, for real this time"..they'd find a way to bring her back.
2- Why does everything have to end unhappily ever after? Of course I can take sad things, but I mean does EVERYTHING have to be bad? Or these writers depressed or something?
heres a link to the whole chat:
www.cise.ufl.edu/~hsiao/m...20511.html