My gf found this and showed it to me ... I haven't seen it posted yet so here's the link and article
www.gaytoday.com/entertain/072902en.aspA Heinous Clich Raises Its Ugly Head
By Rodger Streitmatter
Media Matters
Buffy brings us back to reality Sometimes it seems like whenever we begin to relax and feel confident that the mainstream media are finally portraying gay people fairly and accurately, an incident slaps us back into reality.
A case in point is Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
The youth-oriented series broke new creative ground six years ago by introducing a world populated by demons, vampires, witches and one super-powered young woman in the title role.
Those of us who applaud a larger gay presence in the various forms of media were even more impressed when, some three years ago, Buffy's best friend gradually emerged as a lesbian.
Our appreciation for the UPN program grew stronger still when Willow and her girlfriend Tara's relationship evolved as one that was neither sensationalized nor sanitized. Indeed, their romance was treated with a level of sensitivity and reality that was virtually unparalleled in network TV. Unlike the boys of Will & Grace and Dawson's Creek, these girls held hands and stroked each other's hair and occasionally exchanged a gentle kiss-a gay couple showing affection . . . imagine!
And then came the slap.
First, an unconscionably evil nerd who meant to murder Buffy shot and killed Tara instead. Willow, propelled by blood-red rage and vengeance, then tortured and killed the nerd before moving on to a demonic plot to destroy the entire world. So much for sensitivity.
Bloody from Buffy the Vampire Slayer I know that those of us in academia can be criticized, and often rightly so, for indulging in too much analysis. But it doesn't take a PhD in critical studies to recognize these recent plot turns as fitting into what I will label the "dead/evil lesbian clich."
According to this heinous formula, no lesbian-and certainly no lesbian couple-can ever find true happiness but ultimately will suffer a tragic end.
Perhaps the most high-profile example of this demeaning clich is the 1992 film Basic Instinct, in which Sharon Stone's character is a murderer and her crazy and insanely jealous girlfriend ends up dead.
I could cite a dozen other examples. One of the earliest came in the 1962 film The Children's Hour, in which the Shirley MacLaine character confesses her love for the Audrey Hepburn character-and then hangs herself.
One of the most recent versions of this tired Hollywood plotline came just last year in Mulholland Drive, which ends with a lesbian having her ex-girlfriend murdered and then turning a gun on herself.
The recent Buffy segments followed a disturbingly similar course. Not only did they come complete with the two-for-one lesbian clich package of one dead lesbian and one evil lesbian, but the setting and events leading up to Tara's death also fell into line with the storied lesbian clich.
One of the most overused features of the concept has been that the death is generally directly connected with the act of lesbian sex, usually occurring soon after a couple has made love. Tara died at the end of an episode that included her and Willow having sex-indeed, she took her last breath beside the very bed in which the two young women had slept together only minutes before.
Likewise, consistent with many past examples, Tara's death was a horribly violent one. A bullet ripped through her chest, showering Willow with her lover's blood.
For me, though, what is the most distressing about the recent Buffy example of the "dead/evil lesbian clich" is that I really thought the program was committed to providing an accurate depiction of lesbian characters that young people could identify with.
So did others. Back in 2000, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation commended the program. GLAAD even went so far as to urge viewers to contact Joss Whedon, the producer behind the storyline, and thank him.
The aspect of the Willow and Tara characters during the last couple years that I particularly liked was that they were neither idealized nor irreconcilably flawed. When Tara was introduced, she was painfully shy, inarticulate, self-conscious and no Jennifer Aniston in the looks department-just like real-life teenagers. Willow had her faults, too; her dependence on magic became such a problem, in fact, that it drove Tara to break up with her.
And so, likewise, the young women's relationship was less than perfect. After Tara moved out of the home that she and Willow had shared, both characters struggled to regain their emotional balance. Only after several months had passed and Willow had confronted her addiction-in this instance, magic, but it could just as easily have been drugs or alcohol-did the two characters arrange a coffee date and then a reconciliation.
The message: Gay life-like life in general-is not always easy. But, with perseverance and commitment to growth, gay life-again, like life in general-most certainly can be rich and fulfilling.
As a college professor who sees dozens of young people struggling with their sexual identity every year, I was very pleased that I could finally recommend Buffy as a television program that provided a picture of young gay life that was both realistic and positive.
I no longer can.
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Rodger Streitmatter, Ph.D. is a member of the School of Communication faculty at American University in Washington, D.C. His latest book, Voices of Revolution: The Dissident Press in America has just been published by Columbia University Press. He is also the author of Unspeakable: The Rise of the Gay & Lesbian Press in America (Faber & Faber, 1995) and Raising Her Voice: African American Women Journalists Who Changed History (The University Press of Kentucky, 1994)
by emma peel » Tue Jul 30, 2002 10:36 am 
