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'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby tyche » Thu Jun 06, 2002 3:52 am

This mentions the Kittens. Go us!
Link courtesy of Slayage.
Original article here.
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[b:26681b66b0] Witch love spells death[/b:26681b66b0]
[i:26681b66b0] Was the killing of Tara on Buffy the Vampire Slayer a bold plot move or just another dead lesbian on TV? [/i:26681b66b0]

By Jennifer Greenman

For a detailed view of the dead/evil lesbian cliche and how it applies to Buffy check out the FAQ put together by "The Kitten, The Witches, and the Bad Wardrobe" forum.

When the sixth season of Buffy The Vampire Slayer played out its final story arc last month, the death of sweet, shy witch, Tara Maclay, left viewers shocked and grieving. For almost three seasons Tara, played by Amber Benson, was half of the most believable long-term lesbian couple on television. When she was senselessly killed by a stray bullet, throwing witchy lover, Willow (Alyson Hannigan), into a descending spiral of dark magic, grief and madness, many of us in the shows gay fanbase were left feeling angry and betrayed by a show that once held the most promise of anything on network TV.

For six years Buffy The Vampire Slayer has used metaphors of the supernatural to explore human emotions and conflicts. What elevates this series above the majority of sci-fi/horror shows is how its creators consistently spin conventional storylines and old clichs into original tales of intelligent self-empowerment. The title character, Buffy (Sarah Michelle Geller), is the kind, smart-mouthed, blond fashion plate that ends up dead in the first 10 minutes of any horror film. Instead, she kicks ass and saves the world from evil on a weekly basis. None of the characters are ever played as straight-up stereotypes, as series creator Joss Whedon takes care to make sure that all the characters are multidimensional and sympathetic. Along with the continual mix of comedy, drama and horror, this is what made the show a cult hit.

Buffys main sidekick, the hacker/witch Willow, is just as popular with fans as is Buffy. And when the character of Tara, introduced in season four, evolved into Willows love interest, many gay fans were elated. As the couple progressed, we felt like we were witnessing a miracle--a lesbian relationship on network television that lasted longer than a three-episode arc, which had real depth of emotion and was a sweet portrayal of true love. It was unapologetic, treated the same as any other relationship on the show and never hyped for ratings. The creators even worked around the network censorship of physical intimacy by giving us much subtext, lingering looks, off-screen allusions and spell casting as sex metaphor. The chemistry between the two actresses carried through the scripting to create a portrayal of love that was almost palpable. The half-smiles from across the table, the constant hand touching, the spells and finally the passionate kisses and morning after moments all made this relationship the most believable representation of lesbian love on TV.

This depiction was something that had never happened before, something we gay fans wished for in our if I ran Hollywood fantasies but never really expected to happen, because historically all lesbian relationships in Hollywood end up doomed--any lesbian relationship will always come to a tragic end, most often with one partner dying, usually right after sex, after which the other partner goes insane and kills herself and/or others. So ingrained is this negative portrayal that it has been well documented by film historians as the dead/evil lesbian clich, most notably in The Celluloid Closet by Vito Russo.

So imagine our elation when the Willow/Tara relationship was portrayed as a real relationship with real love, real problems and genuine affection. Now imagine our feelings of shock, horror and betrayal when the character of Tara is suddenly killed right after having sex and Willow goes insane with grief, turning into a murderer bent on world destruction. The clich plays out as if scripted by a 50s pulp writer with a no happy endings edict. Unlike other clichs on the show that are turned on end and spun into something powerful, this story became a doomed lesbian relationship that fits squarely with the portrayal of every other doomed lesbian relationship. Willow isnt the only one wanting explanations, apologies and vengeance. Disenchanted fans have reacted with talks of boycotts, tuneouts and merchandise shredding.

Joss Whedon and his writers maintain that the decision to kill Tara had nothing to do with her sexuality, and was simply a plot device to make Willow evil. From his point of view, its true. Buffy has not been afraid to kill key characters (Jenny Calendar, Buffys mom, even Buffy herself) and there seem to be no happy endings for any relationship. Every one of them has ended with broken hearts, death or tragedy. So it shouldnt be surprising that Willow and Tara lasted as long as they did.

However, because the show treated the two lesbians the same as everyone else, the relationship transcended the original story to become role models, icons and a powerful representation of all that can be normal, good, loving and reassuring about gay relationships. Hannigan, Benson and other creators have all publicly stated they get fan mail from girls thanking them for Willow and Tara, because it lets them know its OK to be gay, safe to feel different, and that happiness is an option. Any psychologist can tell you that having aspects of your own life accurately reflected to you is a very powerful thing. Apparently Whedon didnt appreciate how powerful.

Nevertheless, anyone who followed Buffy for more than a year could see the dark plot development around Willow coming. It was foreshadowed nicely in season three with the appearance of Vampire Willow. Hannigan turned in such an inspiring portrayal of Willows dark side that many fans wanted more. So when the dark magic storyline began in season five, it was a logical conclusion that she would go too far and end up as an evil sorceress. Willow was playing with magic when she should have been respecting it; she ended up with an abuse/dependency problem that caused Tara to leave her. So after a heartwarming, sex-filled reunion when Taras heart is blown out by a stray bullet, its no surprise she breaks down emotionally and goes straight for the dark arts in search of some vengeance.

Objectively, the story is compelling, fraught with high emotion, lots of action, and tragic loss. If Willow were a man, this would be a classic tale of the lonely hero who steps outside the law to avenge the senseless murder of his one true love at the hands of a spineless villain, endangering innocents along the way, who is ultimately faced with the choice of redemption vs. vengeance, often finding a way to balance the two.

If there is a clich that is being spun here, its this one. There is definite power in portraying the death of a same-sex partner as true tragedy. Often, it is seen somehow less emotionally taxing, because the relationship was not sanctioned by God, law and society at large. For Willow (and many viewers), Taras death is heart wrenching. Vengeance Willow is a raw, wild, creature from the id that expresses the raging grief of losing a loved one, and the absolute emptiness that follows. This is the Willow that has been boiling under the surface for the past six years waiting to come out and kick some Scooby Gang ass. The killing of Tara was an easy catalyst to make it happen. Too easy--with far-reaching consequences that extend beyond the shows mythology into the very real world of everyday gays and lesbians begging for honest portrayals, only to be handed a message of misery and unhappiness.

Ultimately, the story rules all. Every character is subject to plot device and is manipulated accordingly. Tara is used to build Willow up, then killed to tear Willow down. Good writers find a balance of originality and conventional storylines coupled with social awareness and great storytelling to create something truly original. Whedon managed, largely, to do that, but after many public assurances that Tara was going nowhere and that he would avoid the dead lesbian clich, the lure of an easy plot device won out, and extra effort for originality was put on the back burner along with the regard of many fans desperate for an accurate portrayal of their lives. If there were as numerous and varied representations of the gay community in the media as there are of straight white men, many of us would not have a problem with the death-of-Tara storyline. But there were other ways to make Willow evil that would not have fallen into this dreaded clich.

So where does this leave us? The magic that was Willow and Tara is gone forever. Despite my feelings of anger, betrayal and sadness, I am grateful for almost three years of an honest, beautiful lesbian relationship. I respect Whedon for staying true to his own vision even if I dont agree with it. I respect him more for pushing the envelope with the networks to open the way for better portrayals of gay love. I even applaud aspects of this story for sheer audacity and ability to make my jaw drop at each turn. Part of me is sad that I cant see this story the way Whedon must have intended it, where all the characters really are treated the same in death and in life.

Because I dont live in Joss Whedons world. I live in a world where every day I have to adapt and interpret representations of love and happiness, because true portrayals are few and far between. A world where the only place I could get a fairly accurate reflection of my life has now been blown apart by bullets, death, dark magic, despair and a sadness that will not leave me. I miss Tara, I grieve for Willow and every other person, gay or not, who lost a friend and a role model to a cheap plot device. I can only hope that the opening Whedon has created will be used by others to portray a wide variety of gay life until bad lesbian clichs become a thing of the past.

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tyche
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Dark Sheep Mysterioso » Thu Jun 06, 2002 4:24 am

Thanks Tyche.
Dark Sheep Mysterioso
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby tyche » Thu Jun 06, 2002 4:30 am

Hey, Dark Sheep! Nice to see you around again. :)
tyche
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby WebWarlock » Thu Jun 06, 2002 4:43 am

Kick ass!

Second article in two days.

Looking forward to this!

Warlock
WebWarlock
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby helpful information perha » Thu Jun 06, 2002 4:44 am

sending out this to TPTB along with the San Francisco TV critic's piece today!
helpful information perha
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Kieli » Thu Jun 06, 2002 4:47 am

Sounds like at least SOME of the media folks have been paying attention. Go us! Go Xita! Ahh, Joss, fan backlash is a bitch, ain't it?
Kieli
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby mollyig » Thu Jun 06, 2002 4:52 am

[b:a407a431c1]"a portrayal of love that was almost palpable"[/b:a407a431c1] Indeed!

Thanks for posting this!
mollyig
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Warduke » Thu Jun 06, 2002 4:56 am

Can it be? The second article in two days that was actually written by someone who isn't on crack? I'm amazed.
Warduke
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Magrat70 » Thu Jun 06, 2002 4:58 am

Thanks Tyche for finding this article maybe people will start to take notice of our feelings and judge them to be valid
Magrat70
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby ninjitsugrrl » Thu Jun 06, 2002 5:06 am

What a beautiful and well written article. I am glad that this issue is getting some much deserved attention outside the Kitty board.
ninjitsugrrl
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Rally » Thu Jun 06, 2002 5:08 am

I just hope some of the fans at the other boards are paying attention to this, so they can get off their soap boxes that the cliche' is all in our heads.
Rally
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby WebWarlock » Thu Jun 06, 2002 5:11 am

This is great.

Now we need to keep this up!
Anyone feel like writting another article? ;)

No. This is not just in our heads. Even a white-bread, mid-west boy like me can see that.

Warlock
WebWarlock
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby nika » Thu Jun 06, 2002 5:14 am

Bravo ! Bravo, I say.
nika
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby molsongrrrl » Thu Jun 06, 2002 5:34 am

two excellent stories in two days about this horrid storyline -- its about time!
molsongrrrl
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Dave V » Thu Jun 06, 2002 5:54 am

Thanks, Tyche, and mucho thanks to Ms. Greenman.

Web Warlock, no it's not just us. ME has badly miscalculated the fallout of their "vision."
Dave V
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Unregistered(d) » Thu Jun 06, 2002 5:56 am

Two great articles in two days! I want to say: UAO!
It would be really good if others media write articles about "how wrong is Tara death"! Because, maybe, Joss and ME will be in a little "trouble" if, not only W/T fans are angry and disappointed, but other maybe more influente ,media! We need to go away on this street! Joss must know that he has made one of the biggest mistake!!!!!!!! He must repaire on it! I want Tara back and stop!
Unregistered(d)
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby helpful information perha » Thu Jun 06, 2002 6:18 am

the buffy article above was in SN&R, here is another SN&R piece. In light of Buffy's move from the WB which targets a young female audience to the UPN and its WWF/young male mentality, I can't help but wonder if Whedon didn't grab the "crack pipe", fill it with "car crash mentality" and retool BtVS, gearing it towards this type of shock attraction for the young male demo this year with biker gang salutes to the WWF, 3 stooge type nerds, buffy humping evil, tara getting snuffed, willow going evil and girl-girl cat fights, sure sounds like it to me.

Excerpts from:
Shock radio invades Sacramento, hoping porn stars, man junk" and creative pubic hair designs will attract listeners

By R.V. Scheide

["We're a guy station," he said in an interview before the show, adding that shock talk is especially appealing to males in the 18-to-45 demographic, i.e. single 20-somethings with disposable income. Like the older male audience that made Rush Limbaugh a household name, these men (along with more than a few teenage boys and, surprisingly enough, a strong following of young female listeners) feel alienated by a world that has attempted to sterilize human behavior and language, or so the popular theory goes. "Guys aren't allowed to talk like guys anymore," Garland insists. "But what about on the radio, in the safety and the comfort of your own car?"

With that in mind, Garland has programmed 24 hours of straight shock talk daily,.........Chris entered the Sacramento market through KFSM, but confessed his style didn't fit the daytime format very well. "That station targets women, and when we have porn stars in talking about murder and stuff, it really doesn't appeal to the soccer moms," he said.......Since August 6, the night Kidd Chris debuted on KXOA, porn stars, hookers and other sex industry workers have remained a constant staple........."Every guy thinks about banging other chicks and stuff," Chris hypothesizes. "We just happen to do it on the radio because it's all we're good at." ......."It's like a car accident you drive by and gawk at," he said, describing the Kidd Chris Show. "But the thing is, you get to keep coming back...... It's like a Jones, man, a fix." "We are the crack to the pipe," Chris agreed.......It's a technique that's worked well for the likes of Limbaugh and Stern, but the question remains: who tunes in for this sort of abuse?...One of the most controversial returning guests to the show has been infamous homophobe Fred Phelps, the Topeka, Kansas, preacher who picketed the funeral of Matthew Sheppard, the college student who was beaten and left to die on a fence in Wyoming by several straights who were offended by his sexual preference. Like the hookers and porn stars who appear on the show, Chris makes no excuses for Phelps. "He's a great guest," Chris said........"There's not really much to us," Chris said. "We're just hanging out. We hang and chill and hope for the best." No doubt that has rubbed some people the wrong way. ]
helpful information perha
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Verdant » Thu Jun 06, 2002 6:28 am

Thanks for the kudos everyone. I'm coming out as the writer of this article. Of course I had to plug the Kittens, I am one. :grin

I posted the original 3000 word version of this essay right here if you are interested in seeing how it was cut down.

I'm very happy about Ramlow's article too. He nailed the whole metaphor change as a sign of bad things to come. I guess we should have know when the coded symbol for lesbian sex became the overt symbol for addiction.

For anyone just reading the text here on the Board, I encourage you to follow the link to the SN&R site and send a letter to the SN&R editor at sactoletters@newsreview.com

This bumps up the page view count on the SN&R site plus lets the editor know that people are reading and would like to see more. (BTW I would encourage this even if it wasn't my article.)

Plus I made sure the photos that ran with the story show the progression of love, sex, death, insanity.

Thanks again. It was a cathartic blast to write. I'm celebrating tonight with a pre-season 6 Buffy marathon and lots of champagne.
Verdant
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Rally » Thu Jun 06, 2002 6:37 am

Great job Verdant, gratz on a great piece.
Rally
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby cesario21 » Thu Jun 06, 2002 6:53 am

Great article Verdant! Thank you so much for writing it!!! I hope Joss and co read it and realise what a terrible mistake they have made...honestly, the writers over on pens have more creativity in their little fingers than the supposed writers over at ME have in their entire staff!!! A five year old could have come up with a more original and entertaining season finale than the heart wrenching crap we got! :rolleyes

Once again, kudos to you for writing that piece!! :grin

Big hug,

Jo ;)

:willow & :tara :love forever!!
cesario21
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby AutumnT » Thu Jun 06, 2002 7:10 am

Verdant,

Quite simply you rock. Thank you. This article has spawned a very interesting and thoughtful discussion on the mostly straight X-Files mailing list I run. I got many there to start watching Buffy and articles like this and the FAQ are really going a long way to helping them to understand just why I got so whacked over Tara's death.

You know, I thought it sounded familiar though and now I know why. :)
AutumnT
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby hellmouthhottie20 » Thu Jun 06, 2002 7:25 am

Verdant, thank you so much for writting that wonderful and thoughtfull article.
You have put into words that i and probebly some other kittens havent been able to say without much censoring. lol

Thanks
Caz
hellmouthhottie20
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Verdant » Thu Jun 06, 2002 7:29 am

Thanks again everyone. I've been getting emails at my work address this morning as well.

[b:2cbce05e7e] AutumnT --[/b:2cbce05e7e] Thank you!! I'd be interested to see that discussion if you don't mind sharing. Even if you would be willing to send a few excerpts to my Kitten email address.

Righteous indignation backed up by intelligent discourse feels great!!!

This is my first professionaly published piece and the support from you all is overwhelming. I feel like I won the Oscar with my first movie and now what will I do???? Write more Buffy articles, obviously.

I agree about the Pens board too. Great stuff there. I need to contribute more.
Verdant
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby AutumnT » Thu Jun 06, 2002 7:47 am

Well, I would but it's a closed mailing list with a rule against forwarding mail. And since I'm the mod there I better follow the rules. But there was an equation of this sort of article helping people who could not understand to be able to and an equation of the way women were marginalized 40 years ago and men could not understand what the issue was.

I made a comment that we don't talk a lot about here, but I think is important about the W/T relationship. Which I can repost here, because I said it:[quote:95259eba08][b:95259eba08][i:95259eba08]Quote:[/i:95259eba08][/b:95259eba08]
This brings up another point as to why this particular relationship was so important. It was a real chance for the straight audience to see a loving gay couple. And I was always surprised as to the vast numbers of W/T straight shippers. And I think that happened because it was just played as a loving relationship. So at the same time it was setting the gay world on fire with the "woo hoo look real live lesbians on TV" it was also doing an important service in giving people who don't understand being gay or think they don't know any gay people a very positive look at a gay couple. And I know it gave some parents the opportunity to discuss gay relationships in a positive manner with their children as well.
[/quote:95259eba08] Hope that helps somewhat. ;)
AutumnT
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Rally » Thu Jun 06, 2002 7:55 am

There is a pretty good discussion of it over at the Cross & Stake however... right here
Rally
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Kieli » Thu Jun 06, 2002 8:18 am

I can only say, Well Done, Ver! It's good to see Kittens in positions where they can express themselves to the rest of fandom in a clear, concise manner.
Kieli
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Verdant » Thu Jun 06, 2002 8:42 am

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Well, I would but it's a closed mailing list with a rule against forwarding mail. And since I'm the mod there I better follow the rules.
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[b:53c4c8e6cd] AutumnT[/b:53c4c8e6cd] I completly respect that. Thanks for sharing what you did. I agree about the equation to women's rights 40 years ago.

I also think that the portrayal of Willow and Tara was having the same kind of impact. I.E. showing non-gay people a normalized, romantic, warm hearted relationship they could relate to. Suddenly non-gay people were fitting a gay couple into their world view, adapting what they saw to fit their own life much the same way gay people have been forced to over the years.

Articles like mine are a flash in the pan compared to the long term effects of a portrayal like W/T (before it went to hell, of course). But hopefully with more people expressing these views the articles will lead viewers to the good stuff and that will perpetuate the creation of more good stuff.

I've already had one of my co-workers read the article and tell me he's going to watch the Buffy re-runs on FX because he wants to see what I was referencing. He's a straight (but not narrow), conservative guy with an open mind and a love of a good story. He's an example of someone who would follow a reccomendation to another show.
Verdant
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby tyche » Thu Jun 06, 2002 10:40 am

Verdant, thank you for an excellent article, and I hope you get nothing but positive feedback. I sent the link to my fiance, and he had one comment:
'Joss screwed up.'
It is important that there's a debate on the issue of LGBT characters on TV, and your article will be a great help to anyone who wants to explain why W/T shippers are so upset. One thing which really annoys me about other boards is that people keep saying (and they think they're being original - ha!) 'producers in the future are going to be scared to show gay characters because they're scared of a backlash from the gay community'. Yeah, b/c TV is really, really scared to show straight couples in all their variety. Show gay couples in all their variety. Don't make it anything unusual. Nobody except the religious right will raise an eyebrow, and you'll attract a lot of viewers who don't want a side order of bigotry and homophobia with their TV shows.
tyche
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby Scout » Thu Jun 06, 2002 11:05 am

Verdant that was awesome! Thanks so much for summing up what a lot of us have wanted to express to Joss and to anyone who would listen. You really nailed it. Go kitten! :)
Scout
 


'Witch love spells death' - News Review article

Postby VampNo12 » Thu Jun 06, 2002 11:38 am

Verdant you wrote a very thoughtful and eloquent piece. Really well done, inspiring article. And thank-you tyche for finding the 'Witch love spell death' article, which I too found to be a very thoughtful piece. It's great to see some validation from other people on other sites, with these types of articles, and I too hope Joss/ME finally gets the message.
VampNo12
 

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