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The Lesbian/Gay/Bi/Trans/Questioning/Issues Thread

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Postby Lil Miss Kitten » Tue Dec 21, 2004 4:38 am

Seriously...dont tempt me! I could type for hours! Actually Ive just spent hours reading the 20 other pages of this thread and it makes me really sad. I just wish I could pick up the phone and tell one of my friends about everything! But for now the board will do! I just want to share EVERYTHING, ANYTHING with SOMEONE!



How we would spend 4 or 5 hours sitting in her car in the middle of nowhere, not saying anything, too afraid to move or talk :( . How we would go online or text message the filthiest messages to eachother and then meet up the next day and completely avoid those conversations and act like itd never happened:sh . How eventually, one night after sitting in the car for about 3 hours in silence (for about the 4th time that week), she reached over and held my hand...and the connection was so strong we both cried. How we spent the next 3 days at that same parking spot every night just exploring eachothers hand (see the thread on the lesbian hand cliche for more details!). How we both nearly chickened out of our first kiss and how when we finally did kiss we didnt stop for hours:kiss2 . How 2 days later we drove to the middle of nowhere, parked up off the road in a patch of scrub and made out for nearly 6 hours non-stop...until a cyclist stopped to see if we'd had an accident and we felt so embarrased at being snapped out!:blush

Ahhhhhh the memories.....



Three years ago but seems like yesterday. Things aren't quite so innocent these days though :wink



It really sux not to be able to pick up the phone and share these things with a friend. Even if no one reads this its nice idea to think that i can finally share this stuff with someone without any negative consequences. Thanks to all the kittens out there.



Maybe I'll have to post all the naughty in-between stuff that went on between then and now in some sort of r18 thread! lol



Ok, enuf babble for one night...maybe bedtime and sweet dreams of my bubs :luv2 Cheers all, gnite :applause

Lil Miss Kitten
 


Re: Some thoughts

Postby FireFlyofDust » Wed Dec 22, 2004 12:23 am

Dementia187



I would say I know how you feel, but I am comfortable with my gender and sexuality. Granted I am fairly masculine female but I like it. When I was little I wanted to grow up to be strong boy who new confu. But now i am super comfortable with my body, even though i am kinda very chubby, but that will change in time. Basically I wanted to say I want to understand ya, and this is the place to talk about it, for the most part people here are really cool. Everyone here (for the most part) battles not being excepted by main stream society so your not alone there.. and you know....i think guys look hot in dresses..



Trish

Don’t forget, we are the people that can have dreams for which we don’t yet have words. Maybe my accomplishment has been to find some of those words.- Harry Hay

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in need of advice!!

Postby Repost Moderator » Wed Dec 29, 2004 10:12 pm

Originally posted by imyoursforever




i have this problem with this girl...we have been good friends for about 3 years now and i have been completely in love with her since i met her. well last year we slept together and just last summer we started goin out...it lasted about a month and then she told me that she wasn't sure the whole lesbian thing was for her and i understand that she is comfused and we still talk and we r still friends but i love her and its really hurting me...i'm not sure what i should do, tell her how i feel or flirt with her or just leave her alone about it...i dont know please give me some advice

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Re: The Lesbian/Gay/Bi/Trans/Questioning/Issues Thread

Postby Yelowsub » Thu Jan 20, 2005 6:57 pm

All of you wonderful people are fountains of knowledge.



I HAVE A QUESTION!



I have a really close friend who is biologically a male. But he does not identify himself as a male, but he does not identify himself as a female. He is sexually attracted to females only.



Although he is not specifically looking for a label I am afraid that he feels as if he is alone, and I know that he is not.



But is there a label for that type of gender identity? Just incase he does want one?



"Trying to talk about love is like trying to dance about architecture."

Yelowsub
 


Re: The Lesbian/Gay/Bi/Trans/Questioning/Issues Thread

Postby Gatito Grande » Thu Jan 20, 2005 9:20 pm

Genderqueer? Androgynous? Bi-gendered? Trans (MTF lesbian)? Something Else Entirely? There are lots of possible identities for your friend, Yelowsub.



GG And your friend is by no means alone. :wave Out



ETA: And yo-yo, check me out: I better know what I'm talking about---I've got Lesbo Street Cred now! :party

Edited by: Gatito Grande at: 1/20/05 8:24 pm
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