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I feel just like I'm sinking, and I claw for solid ground.
I'm pulled down by the undertow, I never thought I could feel so low.
And, oh, darkness I feel like letting go.
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"....in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy." -- from Desiderata, Max Ehrmann, 1927
The news here has been covering this story all day...Mr Bercow wants to vote against his party line, which I think is admirable...the Tories are basically telling all their MP's to vote against legalising it.
B'stards. ANd as for saying that if staight couples are serious about adoption they can always get married...well, the mind boggles!!! ANd how can they say that married couples are likely to stay together longer?!?!? Have they got any proof?? Sure doesn't sound like it, especially went they use a word like 'likely' !
...there was a table set for six and five were there;I stood outside and kept my eyes upon that empty chair;there was steam on the windows from the kitchen;and laughter like a language I once spoke with ease...
"I hope that when the time comes I die like my Dad, peacefully in his sleep. Not screaming in fear like his passengers." The Son of a recently deceased American bus driver.
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Tuesday November 5, 07:58 PM
Gay couples win adoption rights
LONDON (Reuters) - The government has forced through plans to allow unmarried couples, including gay and lesbian partners, to adopt children.
After an intense round of political ping-pong, the House of Lords backed down and voted through the key part of the Adoption Bill by 215 votes to 184. It will now become law.
The peers had already rejected it once but many were swayed by a second vote in favour of the bill in the House of Commons on Monday.
Any unmarried person, straight or gay, can already adopt but as the law stands their partners would have no rights over the children if their relationship broke down.
The government argues that the worst scenario for any parentless child is to remain in the state care system for years. Conservatives say a far higher proportion of unwed couples split up than their married counterparts.
Health Minister Lord Hunt on Tuesday said data showed those brought up in care were more likely to end up in prison and on drugs.
The British Association for Adoption and Fostering figures show that in May 5,000 children across the country were waiting to be adopted. The average length of time between a child going into care and being adopted is two years and nine months.
The Lords are allowed to delay legislation but custom dictates they do not defy the Commons indefinitely.
The Conservative Party has already torn itself apart over the issue. Despite attempts to soften its image, Conservative leader Iain Duncan Smith ordered his members to vote against the government's plans on Monday, prompting John Bercow to quit as the party's work and pensions spokesman.
Former ministers and party heavyweights Michael Portillo and Kenneth Clarke also defied their leader, sparking speculation about plots to oust him.
Duncan Smith, self-styled "quiet man" of UK politics, has been dogged by rumours of a leadership challenge after making little impact on opinion polls in his 14 months at the helm.
He was forced to tell his party on Tuesday to "unite or die" but was then mocked for failing to punish the rebels.
Oh miss, what a thing to do!
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"A man who fails well is greater than one who succeeds badly. - Thomas Merton
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Wenn Du denkst, Du denkst, dann denkst Du nur, Du denkst, denn beim Denken der Gedanken kommst Du nur auf den Gedanken, daß das Denken der Gedanken ein gedankenloses Denken ist.
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"And never let it be said that I left a Tara craving unsatisfied." Willow, Wilderness Pt. 1
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Vatican Drafts New Priest Guidelines
Tue Nov 5,12:26 PM ET
By VICTOR L. SIMPSON, Associated Press Writer
VATICAN CITY (AP) - The Vatican (news - web sites) said Tuesday it is drafting new guidelines for accepting candidates for the priesthood that will address the question of whether gays should be barred.
The brief statement by the Vatican's Press Office gave no indication what the conclusion may be despite news reports that the document will include directives against the admission of homosexuals.
Vatican congregations have been studying the issue for several years, but the question has received renewed attention after the clerical sex abuse scandal in the United States.
Most of the victims of molestation by priests have been adolescent boys. Experts on sex offenders say there is no credible evidence that homosexuals are more likely than heterosexuals to abuse children, but several church leaders have argued that gay clergy are to blame for the scandal.
The Press Office said the Congregation for Catholic Education has begun drafting the document, but no publication date has been set. It will not be published at least until next year, the office said.
A Vatican official, requesting anonymity, said the question of admitting homosexuals and other issues will be addressed in a letter to seminaries.
The Press Office issued the statement after the Rome newspaper La Repubblica published an article Tuesday saying an initial draft had concluded seminaries should bar men with "homosexual tendencies" and that Vatican officials were rushing to complete the document because of the U.S. scandal.
The Catholic News Service of the United States reported last month that a draft document containing directives against admitting gays was circulating among various Vatican consultants but that it was not clear when it might be published.
As an indication of the debate going on, an American staff member of the Congregation for Bishops, the Rev. Andrew Baker, published an article in September in the Jesuit magazine America arguing that gays should not be ordained.
If a man is gay, "then he should not be admitted to holy orders, and his presence in the seminary would not only give him false hope but it may, in fact, hinder" the therapy he needs, Baker wrote.
The magazine took up the issue in an editorial last week, declaring that healthy and dedicated gay priests "make an important contribution to the life of the church."
"Ensuring that the church ordains only psychologically healthy priests is one answer to the sexual abuse crisis," the editorial said. "Scapegoating healthy and celibate gay priests is not."
The Italian gay rights group Arcigay called the news reports that the Vatican was moving to exclude gays from the priesthood "a dark page in relations between the Vatican and homosexuals."
"And never let it be said that I left a Tara craving unsatisfied." Willow, Wilderness Pt. 1
skittles
"....in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy." -- from Desiderata, Max Ehrmann, 1927
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Army Dismisses Gay Arabic Linguists
Thu Nov 14, 4:27 PM ET
By MARGIE MASON, Associated Press Writer
SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - Nine Army linguists, including six trained to speak Arabic, have been dismissed from the military because they are gay.
The soldiers' dismissals come at a time when the military is facing a critical shortage of translators and interpreters for the war on terrorism.
Seven of the soldiers were discharged after telling superiors they are gay, and the two others got in trouble when they were caught together after curfew, said Steve Ralls, spokesman for the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, a group that defends homosexuals in the military.
Six were specializing in Arabic, two were studying Korean and one was studying Mandarin Chinese. All were at the Defense Language Institute in Monterey, the military's primary language training center.
The government has aggressively recruited Arabic speakers since the Sept. 11 attacks.
"We face a drastic shortage of linguists, and the direct impact of Arabic speakers is a particular problem," said Donald R. Hamilton, who documented the need for more linguists in a report to Congress as part of the National Commission on Terrorism.
One of the discharged linguists said the military's policy on gays is hurting its cause.
"It's not a gay-rights issue. I'm arguing military proficiency issues — they're throwing out good, quality people," said Alastair Gamble, a former Army specialist.
Harvey Perritt, spokesman for the Army Training and Doctrine Command at Fort Monroe in Tidewater, Va., confirmed the dismissals occurred between October 2001 and September 2002, but declined to comment further on the cases.
He said 516 linguists enrolled in the Arabic course this year at the Monterey institute and 365 graduated.
The military's "don't ask, don't tell" policy allows gays to serve provided they keep quiet about their sexual orientation.
Gamble and former Pfc. Robert Hicks were discovered in Gamble's room during a surprise inspection in April, Gamble said.
After their discharges, Gamble and Hicks applied for other federal jobs where they could use their language skills in the war on terrorism, but neither was hired, Gamble said.
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Many support GLAD in marriage case
Ten amicus briefs filed with SJC
By Peter Cassels
Boston's Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD) had plenty of company when it filed a brief Nov. 8 with the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court (SJC) in its case seeking marriage rights for gays and lesbians.
An unprecedented number of independent organizations-from the Boston Bar Association to the Urban League of Eastern Massachusetts, the Greater Boston Civil Rights Coalition and a number of child welfare experts-filed ten supporting briefs the same day. Altogether, some 70 organizations and 95 individuals are represented.
The GLAD suit, Goodridge v. Department of Public Health, was filed on behalf of seven plaintiff couples in April 2001. It argues that the right to marry the person of one's choice is protected under the Massachusetts Constitution. The brief filed Nov. 8 further argues that the state cannot justify excluding same-sex couples from marriage and the hundreds of protections it provides.
A state Superior Court judge ruled against the plaintiffs in May and GLAD then filed its appeal with the SJC, which is expected to hear the case this winter and hand down a ruling next summer, according to GLAD.
The couples GLAD is representing are Hillary and Julie Goodridge, Robert Compton and David Wilson, and Michael Horgan and Ed Balmelli, all of Boston; Maureen Brodoff and Ellen Wade of Newton; Gloria Bailey and Linda Davies of Orleans; Richard Linnell and Gary Chalmers of Northbridge, and Heidi Norton and Gina Smith of Northampton.
All the plaintiffs are in long-term relationships and most have children, making marriage benefits all the more important. The Goodridges have been together for 15 years and are raising a 7-year-old daughter. Together for six years, Compton and Wilson are parents and grandparents. Brodoff and Wade, a couple for 21 years, are parents of a 13-year-old daughter. Together for 14 years, Linnell and Chalmers are the parents of a 10-year-old daughter. Norton and Smith became a couple 12 years ago and have two sons, aged 6 and 2. Bailey and Davies have been together for 31 years. Horgan and Balmelli became a couple eight years ago.
The friend-of-the-court briefs filed in support of GLAD's case against the Massachusetts Department of Public Health, which the legal advocate is suing because it does not grant marriage licenses to same-gender couples, total more than 500 pages.
The Boston Bar Association and others submitted a brief to explain the enormous number of laws protecting married couples, including those that honor their emotional commitment and support their economic interdependence, but which cannot be obtained without marriage.
The Greater Boston Civil Rights Coalition, the Urban League of Eastern Massachusetts, the Massachusetts Black Women Attorneys, the Massachusetts chapter of the National Organization of Women, the Massachusetts Association of Hispanic Attorneys and many others argue that excluding gays and lesbians from marriage is discriminatory in the same way it was when the state forbade interracial marriage and stripped women of their legal rights when they got married.
Prof. Charles Kindregan, Jr., and attorney Monroe Inker, authors of a leading family law treatise, explained in their brief that marriage has always been legally valid in Massachusetts whether or not couples have children. The brief discredits the procreation argument often used to exclude gays and lesbians from marriage.
The Jewish Reconstructionist Federation, the Unitarian Universalist Association and clergy from a variety of faiths filed briefs to remind the SJC that only the legal institution of civil marriage, not the rules of any faith, is at issue in the case, and that many clergy support the right of gays and lesbians to marry.
Attorneys at many of the state's leading law firms wrote and filed the friend-of-the-court briefs. They include Hale & Dorr, Palmer & Dodge, Foley Hoag, Goodwin Procter, Hill & Barlow, Bingham McCutchen, Peabody & Arnold, Choate, Hall & Stewart, Krokidas & Bluestein, and Kimball, Brusseau & Michon.
"The strength of our case-that it's fundamentally discriminatory to deny these couples and families the same protections as others-is clearly demonstrated in the depth and breadth of those organizations and individuals who are standing with us," Mary Bonauto, the lead GLAD attorney on the case, said in a statement. "Our plaintiffs are just like other couples and families throughout the state. Their concerns are universal-that they can provide stability and love as they raise their children, and that in times of need, they can protect one another."
"This unprecedented level of support demonstrates that when people understand the depth of inequity faced by gay and lesbian couples and families today, they see the profound discrimination involved in marriage and want to change it," added GLAD Executive Director Gary Buseck. "We hope and expect the court to come to the same conclusion."
Bonauto told Bay Windows Nov. 11 that the large number of organizations and individuals that filed friend-of-the-court briefs is quite unusual. "I think that our position is part of the legal mainstream," she observed. "All citizens should have the same rights to marry. It is a simply matter of equality. Law firms are particularly responsive to that point."
The briefs, Bonauto noted, represents strong support from the straight community. "I don't know if there's any gay person among them frankly." The numbers alone may be impressive, but their caliber also is, she added.
"The people who are sharing their expertise with the court are people at the top of the field-undisputed experts. It's the breadth and the depth of what they represent." Bonauto also noted that GLAD "could have found a cast of thousands" to submit briefs.
Asked whether the SJC will be receptive to its arguments and those of others filing briefs, Bonauto replied: "I hope that they conclude that there is no legal basis for discrimination. All the reasons offered are just illogical and our constitution speaks to principles of equality and liberty. This case is premised entirely on the Massachusetts constitution. There would be no basis to go to the U.S. Supreme Court. This is the end of the road."
Peter Cassels is the Associate Editor at Bay Windows. His e-mail address is pcassels@baywindows.com.
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Life is full of changes...The better you are at letting go of things, the freer your hands will be to catch something new. ~from Off The Map by Joan Ackerman
"It's good to be a chicken casserole," Tara murmured before passing out. ~from "Answering Darkness" by Sassette
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Julia, I feel it is our duty as red-blooded culturally-imperialistic Americans to hop on the next flight to the UK and re-introduce our mates to the proper meaning and use of the 3-line whip. As well as the proper techniques for mounting lady pirates to our mizzenmasts with leather straps and such.
What? It's the least we can do. Strengthening those Anglo-American ties one lady pirate at a time.
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