Gaining a new Family or putting up with the old one

[Willowtree252]

This is for all the kitten,s to post how thay feel about getting a new one or just how thay feel about the old one(Family that is). I don,t care how crazy it is I want to hear it! Are you happy or sad , the up,s or down,s this is the place to voice it hopfully it will help yourself or others!

[littlewicca]

hi dianne! i think nobody replied your post so im going to start. Im ok with my family, Im happy about that, I think every family should be good with all members of the family, that would be cool, people would be happier i think, coz you know if you are happy at home you will be happy with life, but if you spend life fighting since you born...

I dificult sometimes because there is people that have problems with their family and if you born in a troulble place is difficult to change it.. may be
what you think?
(I admit they dont know about me, and the kitten thing, i had not told to any one...)

[summer fairy]

Familys are strange, aren't they? My family has always been, well complicated, there is always someone who is angry with someone else. The family has been split up to, as my mum took me away from my dad when I was young and well, I guess its hard to talk about but yeah, my family are crazy I guess!

[littlewicca]

All familys are crazy in a good or bad meaning right?

[summer fairy]

I'd say the majority, from my experiance, my family are crazy in both a bad and good way, I have never met a absolute sane family in my life, so maybe the crazy family are the normal familys??? ah I'm rambling!

[littlewicca]

yeah! you are right, is crazy but is the normal thing, im good with my fam but i know there are to much familys broken that is a shame

[summer fairy]

Yes it is a shame, I wish my family could be closer but we are not, it's just one of those things, I hope that one day we will all be closer.

[littlewicca]

I hope that too

[Willowtree252]

I have not told my parents (again) that I am gay thay are at the age that well thay need not know with Mothers health problem and Daddy taking care of her. If I ever find someone then that is a different story I may not flaunt it but I won,t hide it either. What made me think of this thread is that we are merging with a new family and boy are thay different. Where I am layed back and easy going his mother is controling and fake shallow . I am not trying to judge anyone but I am a true blue kinda person and if you can,t treat me right stay away from me cause I have better things to do. I will put up and play nice for my daughter but this is gonna drive us both insane before it is over my friends

[littlewicca]

Im kinda lost with that post, sorry

[summer fairy]

:pinky I have not told my parents (again) that I am gay thay are at the age that well thay need not know with Mothers health problem and Daddy taking care of her. If I ever find someone then that is a different story I may not flaunt it but I won,t hide it either. What made me think of this thread is that we are merging with a new family and boy are thay different. Where I am layed back and easy going his mother is controling and fake shallow . I am not trying to judge anyone but I am a true blue kinda person and if you can,t treat me right stay away from me cause I have better things to do. I will put up and play nice for my daughter but this is gonna drive us both insane before it is over my friends

I know what you mean, but you will just have to put up with it, like you said, if there not nice with you then you have a perfectly good reason not to talk to them, familys can be very different from others. You might just need to get to know them better hun, you never know, that women might just be shy and put up a big act, which is why you find her fony!

[littlewicca]

yep, i know what you say, sorry if Im lost in some thing, is just I speak spanish so im tring harder to understand all
Summer Fairy is very right, not all familys are the same, just yo can know how they are and may be how thy will react, Im not talking as if I knoweverything, you both know I dont, but any way that is a big true

[summer fairy]

Well said littlewicca! Its okay, english is not your first language, it is understandable that you will not understand some things.

[littlewicca]

English is becoming my other language yes, since i have internet i almost talk to people in english lol
yes, Dianne know what i mean about all this,

[Willowtree252]

yes I understand I am glad I have someone to talk to about it thank you

[littlewicca]

to you friend

[mangled_monkey]

Families are definetely insane. Though, I have met some normal families. I spent Christmas with my girlfriend's family in Georgia a couple years ago, and it was really weird because everyone got along and there was no fighting. At all.

I also didn't realize that it was ok for parents to kiss until I saw my best friend's parents kissing... when I was in 6th grade.

But even with all the insanity and everything, I still love my family, and I wouldn't trade them for anything. They may have made me insane also, but I like the way I am, and I know I am how I am because of them. (giggles cause that rhymed)

I AM gaining a brother in law on April 21st, and I'm a bit nervous about that. I already live with him and my sister, but I worry for them. They're getting married for almost the same reason my parents got married, for financial reasons. My parents got married because my mom was pregnant, but also for a tax write off. He's a bit like my dad though, and that's what worries me. But I'm sure my sister is smart enough to know what she's doing...

[littlewicca]

Oh, and have you talked to him? he dont love the person he will marry? :( that is not good, it not souns good at all.
How is our girlfriend`s family with you?

[mangled_monkey]

Oh, and have you talked to him? he dont love the person he will marry? :( that is not good, it not souns good at all.
How is our girlfriend`s family with you?

Oh, he DOES love my sister, I just question how compatable they are.

And that girlfriend's family was wonderful, they accepted me into the family and everything... we're not together anymore, though.

[summer fairy]

Yeah I don't like 2 of my neighbours, they both have familys but there so noisy, they complain about everyone in the street when there kids/animals are absolute terrors!

[littlewicca]

What a anoying thing! my neighbours are ok, i cant say anything bad, at least for now, because there are two new houses in fron of my house lol but they are good, i think so.

oh, ok mangled_monkey i get it now, that is a good family yep

[Numen]

My family is me and my mum (plus two poodles). My dad when I was 11, and I had been before 'daddy's girl'. My relationship with mum wasn't bad or anything, only not so close as with dad. Now, since we've been living with only two of us for six and half year, we've become extremely close. Mum knows that I'm lebian, my problems with gender and many other stuff and I can talk to her about almost anything. She can read me easily, as open book. Sometimes it's irritating, but in the end, it doesn't matter so much.
Now that I live weeks elswhere and visit home only at weekends, our relationship have become more friend-like.
And eventhough she sometimes drives me crazy, I still love her.

[midnightmoonsong]

I would be willing to trade my family.....any takers out here??? Come on ..they are a really small family,there little people so they dont take up much space, no takers yet?? Ah well i guess im stuck with the insane disfunctional group...truth be told we were never really as close as they would like others to believe but stuff happens and its cool i guess.
Tara