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Day of Silence

Postby Morganlafay » Thu Apr 27, 2006 5:05 pm

Yesterday was the Day of Silence. I was wondering if anyone participtaed, and if they wanted to share their experiences.

Thousands of Schools Participate in GLSEN’s 10th Annual Day of Silence
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Apr 26, 2006

Coinciding release of 2005 National School Climate Survey and national ad give voice to the truth about anti-LGBT bullying and harassment in America’s schools

New York, NY - April 26, 2006 - GLSEN, or the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, today kicks-off the 10th national Day of Silence®, among the largest student-led actions in American history. An estimated 500,000 students at 4,000 schools nationwide are participating in GLSEN’s Day of Silence to peacefully bring attention to the pervasive problem of anti-lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) bullying and harassment in schools.

"Today hundreds of thousands of students are taking action and responding to the problem of anti-LGBT bullying and harassment—a problem they see in their hallways and classrooms every day," said GLSEN’s Founder and Executive Director Kevin Jennings. "I commend each and every young person today as they tell their truths to their classmates and communities."

GLSEN also today released the findings of its 2005 National School Climate Survey, the only national survey documenting the experiences of LGBT youth in America’s schools, at the National Press Club in Washington, D.C. Results from this fourth biennial report show the truth: that anti-LGBT bullying and harassment continue to be commonplace in our nation’s schools. The results also indicate that student clubs like Gay-Straight Alliances, supportive teachers and faculty and comprehensive anti-bullying policies directly relate to safer schools. For more information about the GLSEN’s 2005 National School Climate Survey, visit www.glsen.org.

"I am taking part in GLSEN’s national Day of Silence because I have seen and experienced the impact of anti-LGBT harassment on my friends and me," said Jessie Liberatore, GLSEN Jump-Start leader and student organizer. "Today, in coordination with hundreds of thousands of students around the country, I am letting my school community know that anti-LGBT bullying, harassment and violence must end."

In addition to observances throughout the day on school campuses across the country, dozens of "Breaking the Silence" community rallies and events are planned to take place at the end of the school day and during the week. Students, parents, teachers and community members come together at the day’s end to share their experiences with guest speakers and members of their local communities. To find out if there is a "Breaking the Silence" event near you, please visit www.dayofsilence.org.

In celebration of GLSEN’s 10th national Day of Silence, a full-page ad featuring a GLSEN student leader appears today in the Washington Post asking parents, community members and policymakers to "lend their voice to the silence".

About the Day of Silence
The Day of Silence, a project of GLSEN in collaboration with the United States Student Association (USSA), is a student-led day of action where those who support making anti-LGBT bias unacceptable in schools by participating in activities to recognize and protest the discrimination and harassment – in effect the silencing – experienced by LGBT students and their allies. Across the country last year an estimated 450,000 students in over 3,000 K-12 schools and over 600 colleges took part in the Day of Silence.

About GLSEN
GLSEN, or the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, is the leading national education organization focused on ensuring safe schools for ALL students. GLSEN envisions a world in which every child learns to respect and accept all people, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity/expression. For more information on GLSEN’s educational resources, public policy agenda, research, student organizing programs or development initiatives, visit www.glsen.org.
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Re: Day of Silence

Postby Saena » Thu Apr 27, 2006 7:48 pm

My college participated, and we actually got a good number of people to do it. I posted my thoughts about it on my lj (http://saena17.livejournal.com) but I will post them here as well. (This is copied and pasted word-for-word, by the way, so excuse any abruptness.)

"Well, National Day of Silence is over. The whole experience was very interesting to have, because I kept changing the way I felt all day. It didn't provoke one consistent emotion in me. Basically, for those of you who are unfamiliar with the concept of NDOS, it's a protest act that remembers GLBT people and their allies who are affected by hate crimes. I was silent (yes, no speaking at all) from the time I woke up at 7:20 a.m. to the Breaking of the Silence at 8:15 p.m. And as you might expect, it's tough. There were moments when I was perfectly content to be silent, when I was happy because I was doing well and I didn't need to talk. There were times when I felt very frustrated, not because I couldn't communicate with people or that they were having trouble understanding me, but because I randomly wanted to say something and couldn't. There were times when it was comfortable- tabling with STARS for an hour was surprisingly nice, because I felt like we were sitting in an easy, effortless silence rather than a forced one. And sometimes, it was just plain awkward; the walk from Queen Anne to the campus center for dinner, when it was just me and my (speaking) roommate, was never more uncomfortable than it was today.

I did notice a deliberate effort on my part to be more cheerful and responsive to others, without actually speaking. It wasn't a forced friendliness, but it was very much intentional. This was probably because any kind of noticeable quietness is usually a signal to others that something is wrong. I wanted to reassure people that I was actually in a very good mood that day, and make their interactions with me as painless as possible. And interestingly enough, for an action that I was very much aware of and paying attention to, it somehow felt more sincere. When I walk past strangers or people I barely know (and this sometimes happens with closer acquaintances too) I am actually not prepared to smile at them, so my usual bright and happy smile kind of doesn't happen. Instead, when I pass people on the path and they smile at me, they usually end up getting this kind of tight, restrained, offhand smile. I don't know; it's just hard for me to burst out into a grin at the sight of a person. But smiling at random people came more naturally today, since I was trying deliberately to be very disarming. I also found that when something was funny, when I laughed it was more sincere. I don't mean to imply that I've been giving you all insincere laughing all this time, but there were so many moments today when I just genuinely laughed. In trying to get other people to let their guard down, I let down my own. And it was kind of nice. :)

As far as the internet went, I tried to limit my activities to things that didn't involve directly responding to another person. This means no commenting on livejournal or xanga, no contributing to posts on message boards, no responding to emails (unless necessary), no reviewing the fanfiction I read today, etc. I could read email and livejournal and message boards and fanfiction, but I couldn't respond to them with my own thoughts. This was actually one of the more difficult points of the day. I was really annoyed by that one livejournal comment that sat in my inbox all day, because I really wanted to answer it, but I couldn't until just a little while ago. That was pretty frustrating. I also decided that I could communicate in one way, and that was by writing notes on paper. I kind of saw this as necessary, at least in the circumstances I found myself in. It helped a lot in my modern dance class, when we performed our final projects and then discussed in groups. It also allowed me to communicate with my roommates and friends a little more. Maybe another year I will avoid that, but I think it was an exception worth making."

Did anybody else do it?

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Re: Day of Silence

Postby Willowlover » Thu Apr 27, 2006 9:14 pm

I particapated i9n the day of Silence at my school (North Central High School, Spokane WA). All day I was Ridaculed and during the passing periods some people decided it was a game to yell in my face(and the others who particapated) to try to get us to talk.

I am proud to say that no one gave in to the game. We all stayed silent.
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Re: Day of Silence

Postby Morganlafay » Mon May 01, 2006 12:19 pm

Willowlover, I'm sorry that people tried to ridicule you during the day. I had a pretty positive experience. About 50 students in my school participated, and the rest of the student body was mostly cool. Although a few wanted to know about the event, and it was just a bit difficult to explain it to them w/o talking.
And after school about 18 of us in the GSA took a bus to Albany, NY for Breaking the Silence, which was a ton of fun. Students from around the Capital District came to socialize, celebrate the day, and enjoy performances and listen about people's experiences.
The Day of SIlence is a positive event, and I encourage people to participate next year.
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Re: Day of Silence

Postby Lucifer » Mon May 01, 2006 4:54 pm

I wasn't able to participate in the day of silence becasue i had an english teacher taht was a pain and she said i had to give me oral presentation taht day along with the rest of the class

I dont think she was trying to make a statement against the day itself but more like she was just trying to be plain annoying

I felt kinda sad becasue while i was silent most of the day i still broke the vow in english class....
oh well better luck next year....

as far as the rest of the school a few of the kids were cruel and tried to yell in our faces, but some of my straight friends who weren't participating decided to help us out and keep the rude kids away from me and the other silent kid
I suppose direct participation isn't the only form that counts
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Re: Day of Silence

Postby Willowlover » Wed Apr 18, 2007 3:47 pm

April 18th 2007 was the 11th national day of silence. this year at my new school (Lewis and Clark High School Spokane Washington) We had an estimated 60 students participate and as far as I know noone was ridiculed. :pride :dance :dance :dance :dance :dance :dance :dance
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Re: Day of Silence

Postby Willow Watcher » Wed Apr 18, 2007 7:55 pm

AT WORK YESTERDAY, THERE WAS A MINUTE OF SILENCE FOR THOSE LOST IN THE TECH SHOOTING. I HAVE NEVER HEARD IT SO QUIET IN THAT PLACE BEFORE. I TOOK THAT TIME TO PRAY FOR THOSE LOST AND THE FAMILIES AND THANK GOD FOR GIVING ME LIVE, LOVE AND HAPPINESS.
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Re: Day of Silence

Postby EndlessDestiny » Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:28 pm

I participated in the Day of Silence. My friends found me not talking to be quite amusing. It got harder the longer it went. My school's Breaking the Silence Rally was cancelled though due to weather. Since that would have started at 6 pm, I assumed that was when we were allowed to speak. Can anyone verify that so I know for next year? No one was able to give me a straight answer when I asked here.
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Re: Day of Silence

Postby Saena » Thu Apr 19, 2007 3:43 pm

My school usually breaks the silence with a brief gathering at 8:15 p.m. However, I wasn't able to attend due to dress rehearsal for my dance show, so I broke the silence by myself at 7:00 when I left to put my makeup on. :blush

It was a good day, similar to last year's (see my post above from last year for details). Day of Silence is one of my favorite yearly events that my GSA does. I always find it really meaningful.

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Re: Day of Silence

Postby CrazyTaraWitch » Thu Apr 19, 2007 3:51 pm

yesterday was my third year participating, and I love it every time. I was said this year though that I was unable to go to our Breaking the Silence rally,but I've never known as many people to participate at my school before, and we got to have buttons this year, so it was still cool:)
I have heard conflicting things about when the silence is supposed to end; most people I knew this year just started talking at the end of our school day, but I friend of mine thought it went till 6. I went till 4, 2 years ago I waited until the rally started, last year I had to ask a teacher questions about a test after school, so I stopped talking once the day ended. To summarize, I have no idea when it actually ends.
Day of Silence is really fun, despite the jerks that make fun of us each year, and celebrate that 'all the stupid people' are silent. I have yet to have any teacher question the day or try to make me talk, and it gets a lot of recognition around here. I love Day of Silence, and can't wait to go to the rally next year!
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Re: Day of Silence

Postby Saena » Thu Apr 19, 2007 10:40 pm

The best part about going to a liberal-minded college is that you get few, if any, negative comments or insults when you participate in Day of Silence. You can tell the people who aren't enthusiastic because they kind of nod and walk away, but no one really lashes out. It's nice. :)

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Re: Day of Silence

Postby Dorothy » Sun Mar 29, 2009 6:46 pm

*bumpy* Less than a month (april 17th) till the next one.

I'm happy that being silent for a day would be totally futile at my school, came out on introduction day and never had any trouble.
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Bit sad that this puts me out of the line-o-action though :blush

But is anyone else participating this year?
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Re: Day of Silence

Postby EvilKittycatofdoom » Fri Jul 03, 2009 2:11 am

I did! not that anyone noticed 'cause I didn't go anywhere that day. But I still participated
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