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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Dorothy » Thu Jan 22, 2009 2:58 pm

that I almost hit on a man today. He wasnt cute, goodlooking, nice or even interesting, he was just very obviously interested.
Luckily I realised just in time what I was going to do, men are so easy and predictable and I desperately need someone to love me. But not a man! (yuck)
Manchmal in der Nacht hab ich phantastische Träume. Aber wenn ish aufwach, quält mich die Angst.
Manchmal in der Nacht bin ich so hilflos und wünsch mir, es käm einer, der mich führt und beschützt.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby singgirl » Thu Jan 22, 2009 11:39 pm

oooh, I've done that... only to realize too late what I was doing. ;-)
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Yours » Fri Jan 23, 2009 1:53 pm

It scares me when I think that I may never develope my full potential in healing, it's all I want to do in life and I'm so scared that it doesn't work out.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby umgaynow » Sat Jan 24, 2009 9:09 am

The sound of gunfire and screaming on the other side of the fence...as I discovered last night...man, the only gunfire you ever heard in NH was hunters and I'd just let the air out of their tires
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Sandman78 » Tue Jan 27, 2009 1:01 am

Losing my job.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby CrazyTaraWitch » Sun Feb 15, 2009 6:54 pm

Being alone in the world...and I think I'm pretty much there :paranoid
"To days to come."
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Dorothy » Sun Feb 15, 2009 6:59 pm

*hug* you're not alone, I'm right there in the "alone" corner too :p

ot: may I add Ambers blogs (not all of them) and to die alone to my list of scary stuff?
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby CrazyTaraWitch » Sun Feb 15, 2009 9:08 pm

Thanks Dorothy :) I know I'm not really alone, not completely, but it sure feels that way sometimes.

I will also second the fear of dying alone, and add to it the fear of living alone--not as in, without-a-roommate, but without people in your life who really matter. I'm scared of being without love (romantic and otherwise).
"To days to come."
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Boschi » Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:01 am

Currently, high (or even fair to middlin') winds.
Don't confuse me with your reasonableness.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Alexandra4sm » Tue Feb 17, 2009 5:50 pm

I'm scared of fragile objects. It got so bad at one stage, a few years ago that I couldn't even use a mug for coffee, it had to be a plastic cup.


Certain people have been known to test out whether I'm making it up or not by smashing pint glasses infront of me. Safe to say I freaked out!
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby CrazyTaraWitch » Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:54 pm

I'm scared of somehow hurting the kids at work :(
"To days to come."
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Taralover » Wed Feb 18, 2009 10:20 am

I might never find a girlfriend which scares me. I might never get an independent money source that scares me too.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby CrazyTaraWitch » Sat May 01, 2010 7:44 pm

Being alone, never again finding someone to love me, never having the life I want, never being able to love someone else like I love her, forgetting what it's like to be loved, forgetting how perfect and wonderful and magical it was when we were together, losing my faith in love, losing all the self-esteem she helped me build now that I've lost her, never finding someone else who makes me feel as incredible and *real* as she did, feeling stuck and numb and like I'm not living my life, never being able to fully trust someone again now that the person I trusted most broke my heart, building a life I'm not fully committed to, forgetting how beautiful she is when she smiles... I'm scared of holding on and I'm terrified of letting go.
Seems like a lot of things scare me right now.
"To days to come."
"All my love to long ago.


I hope, we'll have more happy ever after
I hope, we can all live more fearlessly...

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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Nue » Sun May 02, 2010 5:23 pm

uhn... thunder, clowns and little people... ow, and not being able to help a friend... and became incapable of love/being loved...
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Emberclouds » Sun May 02, 2010 5:31 pm

Never being able to really let someone in :paranoid
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby BeneathMyWillowTree » Mon May 03, 2010 2:17 am

Not being scared enough!
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby CrazyTaraWitch » Wed May 05, 2010 9:00 pm

Messing up my interview tomorrow :paranoid
"To days to come."
"All my love to long ago.


I hope, we'll have more happy ever after
I hope, we can all live more fearlessly...

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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby sweet satin lover » Wed May 12, 2010 6:40 am

As Britney spears once said * My love doesnt scare me, other people's love scares me* thats my fear that I will love too much.
My mother always says that if a person cant say something nice, and be kind then they should not say anything at all.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Zooeys_Bridge » Fri May 14, 2010 9:16 pm

I'm graduating from my happy place this weekend
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby CrazyTaraWitch » Fri May 14, 2010 9:45 pm

Interviews and being alone forever (not neccessarily in that order)
"To days to come."
"All my love to long ago.


I hope, we'll have more happy ever after
I hope, we can all live more fearlessly...

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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Emms » Wed Jun 02, 2010 1:34 am

CrazyTaraWitch wrote:Interviews and being alone forever (not neccessarily in that order)


That scares me too, sweetie... the being alone forever part not the interview bit... I'm pretty good in an interview.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby CrazyTaraWitch » Tue Jun 08, 2010 9:19 pm

Not finding a job or finding one that doesn't pay enough to eventually support me + 1, and someday being a bad mom.
"To days to come."
"All my love to long ago.


I hope, we'll have more happy ever after
I hope, we can all live more fearlessly...

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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby thiswomanswork » Wed Jul 14, 2010 10:36 pm

Screwing up and losing what I have with her.
I'll be everything that I want to be,
I am confidence in insecurity.
I am a voice yet waiting to be heard,
I'll shoot the shot, bang, that you hear 'round the world.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Taralover » Fri Jul 16, 2010 9:24 am

Paranoia (that may or may not have truth behind it) that my computer has been hacked into. If I spend lots of money to get it fixed and it is just paranoia then I have wasted a lot of money, but if it has been hacked and I don't do anything, then the hacker might do something like stealing my bank account details.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby JujuDeRoussie » Sun Jul 18, 2010 10:56 pm

For it to last and last and last.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby tarawillow<3 » Thu Jul 29, 2010 2:53 pm

Frogs, Butterflies, and horses D: oh and dying alone !
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Scortor » Wed Aug 04, 2010 11:55 am

On a basic level...I'm afraid of syringes. I'm fine with actual needles, weirdly enough. I've got plenty of piercings and planning a few tattoos, plus I'm a costumer so I'm not bothered by sewing needles either, but there's something about syringes that sends me into a blind panic. Crying, shaking, screaming, the works. =/

On a deeper level, I'm afraid of never finding happiness, never finding the one person I'm meant to be with, never living up to my full potential.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby sweet satin lover » Thu Nov 17, 2011 3:14 pm

death, getting old, fear of never being enough.
My mother always says that if a person cant say something nice, and be kind then they should not say anything at all.
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby Babbles4Twillow » Thu Nov 17, 2011 3:50 pm

Spiders, snakes, clowns, and disappointing the people who mean a lot to me. Not being enough for the woman I'm falling for =/
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Re: Things that Scare You

Postby faolan228 » Thu Nov 17, 2011 11:42 pm

Losing my temper.

And dying alone, too.
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