Hey popular thread I see!
Willow: yes, Fuck has to rule its suck a wonderful word and can be used anywhere and mean anything: interjection, verb, noun, what a multi-functional word, subject, object, use it as a preposition (proposition) an adjective or adverb, anything your little heart desires, on it's own or in a group ... of words (or not)

; anytime, anywhere, - fuck - what a marvellous term, concept, action feeling, definitely a feeling, a wonderful marvellous feeling oh, did I say action, yes lots and lots of action.
Tara: Willow, you're saying not doing
Cunt, another favourite since reading
The Vagina Monologues, strongly suggest everyone woman read this book.
Hate books that close the bedroom door a few pages to soon. Were marginalized enough as it is, painted in washed out clichs, even our own community wants us to be invisible. Read a publishers site, no gratuitous sex scenes to which I reply [
cough]
bullshit[
cough], like that's a bad thing or something. So cmon grrlz, bring it on, tender, romantic, hot, sexy, beautiful smut, be out, be open (definitely open) and revel in it, put it in peoples faces (ohh, I like that part, a lot)!
Stepping off soapbox and reaching for some good ole fashioned steam up the windows grrl action. Suggested readings: any of the
Best Lesbian Erotica books,
On Our Backs (if youve feeling a little more out there),
Cherry (also out there) and for the truly unbridled theres Pat Califias writings. If youre feeling a little more graphically romantic, the
Mickey Knight books by JM Redmann get a little steamy in a lot of places. Also if you like sci/fantasy/romance kinda things, grab Leslie Davis
Adepts of Calluna books; theyre quite fun and can get the toes a curlin.
Other loverly terms: honey pot (from
Go Fish), hence my other nic name, Pooh Bear,

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Favourite word not yet mentioned: grrl juice;
Yup, I love the subject of todays daily, yup, yup, yup. 'Tis the thing to talk about on a cold snowy day.