ok, i will attempt to refrain from any disparaging remarks about one of our favorite actresses.
I'll limit myself to saying that what turns ms. benson on is just unfathomable to moi... 
For those who haven't seen, her picks were summed up by her own comment to the effect that it's not how they look that matters (or something like that). So for all you guys out there who didn't think you had a chance, well guess again!
Personally, i'm in the camp of sexy man = eyecandy. but i'm shallow like that
, and queer, so it don't matter.
(and my vote was ricky martin for sure!).
And ms. benson's individualist nature shined thru on this show. Including the ending bit (credits rolling) wherein everyone else was standing together and jabbering to each other, while amber sat nearby on an endtable, only minimally involved.
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