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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby lustitana » Tue Feb 05, 2002 7:17 pm

I loved this episode! Its so nice to see a great show after weeks of reruns and medium- good eps.

As stupid as I used to think the lame gunmen were, I'm actually beginning to like them, at first it as the bumbling and bickering and now its kinda cool to watch them become semi-formidable bad guys. And I think that this little rift between them could prove to be very interesting.

And Tara, hurray for Tara. She was beautiful, the voice of reason, and how cute was the awkward interaction with Willow. I loved the outfit she wore in her first scene. The green sweater duster, and the ambery pendant. But what the hell was she wearing when she ran into Willow and Xander!?

Deep ain't I?

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby Pixie » Tue Feb 05, 2002 7:27 pm

Wow! I don't think there was anything I didn't like about this episode. Wait, let me rephrase that. I don't think there was anything that wasn't well done in this ep. It was disturbing and heart-wrenching. I loved finally seeing not just Tara, but a W/T scene. The awkward, we're really not talking about Buffy conversation was sweet, and gave me hope.

The troika we-won't-grow-up theme came through loud and clear. Yes, Warren did care for Katrina originally, but he is becoming quite the egomaniac. I hope Jonathan will be able to break it off with them, I think he is capable of it. But I think Andrew is too much of a follower with not enough of a conscience to do the same.

I thought SMG, James, and of course Aly and Amber did a wonderful job!!! I hope we'll see more of the Buffy/Tara friendship.

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Postby Rosenberg » Tue Feb 05, 2002 7:36 pm

This was definitely not a light-hearted episode, but I liked it. What made it worth the wait for me was seeing Tara again. I swear my heart actually skipped a beat when I saw her curled up in the chair talking to Buffy. Her scene with Willow was so real. You could see in their eyes how much they missed each other, and how difficult it's been on both of them to be separated. The line about Willow missing Buffy was really another way of saying Willow misses Tara (I think someone may have already mentioned that). That little half smile Tara gave Willow when she walked away was so sweet. It's obvious they still love each other.

The murder and cover-up of Katrina was disturbing, as was the scene between B/S at the Bronze. It looks like Warren is becoming more of a sociopath week by week, and Andrew seems to be follwing him. Jonathan appears to still have a bit of a conscience.

What more can I say about the Tara/Buffy scene at the end? I was ready to cry along with Buffy (especially if I could be comforted by Tara). Tara was so understading and non-judgemental. It just shows how essential she actually is to the group. Can't wait for next week's ep.

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby MidgetFishy » Tue Feb 05, 2002 7:37 pm

curiously enough, what WAS the original lesbian line?
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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby The Rose » Tue Feb 05, 2002 7:37 pm

First off, I am glad to see Tara again. I missed her SOOOOOOO much. There are always sparks when W/T are together. Too bad the scene was so short. The scene between Buffy and Tara is really touching, and I am glad Buffy and Tara are bonding.

Second, as the eps go by, I am convinced more and more that Spike has not changed one bit. Look at the scene in the Bronze. He tells her she no longer belongs with her friends, and she belongs to him. He is trying to make her feel like dirt, so she will be completely dependent on him just like an abusive husband. I still do not think why some people think this is NOT an abusive relationship. I hope this is the end of Buffy and Spike's sexcapades because I do not know how much more I can take. Also, Spike does not understand one person is just as important as thousands. Another excellent reason why this "thing" is problematic

Third, Warren is far more evil than the other two geeks, and I am glad Buffy is sane enough to put two and two together and figure out she has been framed.

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Tara: Willow, I got so lost.
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Postby JJ » Tue Feb 05, 2002 7:37 pm

This is definitely turning out to be Dark Season Extraordinaire. I was disappointed w/ Andrew's feeling of getting away w/ murder. He and Jonathan were supposed to be more conscientious than Warren. Guess the days of the LG being solely comic relief are truly over.

You wonder how many more times SMG can carry off a breakdown scene w/o being carried off into a cookie truck, but her last scene w/ Amber/Tara was decidedly powerful. Don't know how the B/S relationship will play out in the future; I do hope eventually it will have a dusty ending.

And of course, the Obvious:

YAY for Tara returning!!!! YAY for Tara and Willow trying to reconnect!!!!! YAY's all around!!!!!!!!!

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby supermus » Tue Feb 05, 2002 7:38 pm

This episode gets 3 stars automatically for having Tara and W/T interaction. I loved Jonathan, his moral compass is starting to show through. Buffy/Spike had some good scenes. B/T was great, and I like how B is starting to gradually realize she loves spike. It was a little dark and depressing, so I give it 4.5 stars.

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby JJ » Tue Feb 05, 2002 7:39 pm

quote:
Originally posted by MidgetFishy:
curiously enough, what WAS the original lesbian line?

Oh yeah, I forgot to bring this up myself. And what scene what it supposed to be in?

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The 100th Light for Tara
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"Ignorance and prejudice and fear walk hand in hand."
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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby aladdin » Tue Feb 05, 2002 7:45 pm

Definitely a good episode and yay, Tara is back and in action. I just love her!

Maybe somebody can answer my question: what was this really sad song that was playing in the scene after the Willow/Tara encounter? The scene where Spike prepares everything for his date with Buffy (is that right) and wears this unbottened shirt and when Buffy is patrolling in an attempt to avoid Spike?

It was a great song, I have to find it!

Oh, I hope things between our girls clear up a bit more next week...that already was a good step and I can't wait till next Tuesday.

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby BBOvenGuy » Tue Feb 05, 2002 7:51 pm

Supposedly there was a line in the Buffy/Tara scene where Tara implied that as a lesbian, she understood all about keeping who you're with a secret. I think that's it, anyway.

And I don't think Buffy is necessarily discovering that she loves Spike. She's discovering that she can't blame the lust she's been indulging in on something that's "wrong" about her. Two entirely different things.

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby darvangi » Tue Feb 05, 2002 8:09 pm

Jeebus Cripes, what a classic freakin' episode! This reminded me of my other favorite eps, "Consequences" and "The Gift," in that it worked like a modern day, sci-fi film noir: the story was complex, the ending was not particularly hopeful and it did not show human nature to be essentially good. Ooooh, how I love the darkness of it all.

Warren, like Ben and Faith, is a human villain who stands in among the metaphorical demons to show us that not every person is going to be sympathetic to Buffy's good fight. It makes the Buffyverse real, multi-layered and dangerous. The plot of this ep had many elements to juggle and it did so expertly, showing us the conlicts of Buffy's relationships with Dawn and Spike, Willow's with Tara, and the nerds with each other. And the ending, giving no assurance of answers to Buffy's problem, was so powerful. The close-ups on Buffy and Tara made their conversation seem so intimate, like Buffy was completely baring her soul in a way that she has needed to but avoided all season. Tara was the perfect person for this scene too - shades of the dream in Restless where she was a guiding force for Buffy.

This ep is the first since "Tabula Rasa" that has really made me feel that the dynamic between the characters, which has been a cornerstone of the series since the beginning, can withstand the absence of Giles. I miss him, but after seeing a great story like this, I know that the show can still excel.

I'm glad that Tara is taking small, careful steps in approaching Willow. She gave her a very guarded consolation by telling Willow she was happy with her progress in quitting magic. It was sweet, but not so much that Willow thinks she can just go cold turkey for a while and get Tara back. When Tara sees that Willow can truly be happy without magic in her life, I think that things can go forward much faster.

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby Thanatopsis » Tue Feb 05, 2002 8:16 pm

Gotta say, loved this ep. Though it might have something to do with the reapperance of Tara. I just couldn't help the grin that appeared on my face when I saw her on screen.

I really enjoyed the whole David Lynchian time loop and Buffy's dream. Though I'm glad that Jonathan isn't looking to be as evil as the other two.

In terms of B/S interaction, even though I knew it was coming, the whole Bronze thing was disturbing. I think more so because of their interaction earlier, under his rugs in his crypt. They almost seemed like a normal couple.

Totally have to agree with Scoobiedoo though about the 3rd act. All Buffy does is hear the name Katrina and she knows it's Warren? I mean I know its not a super common name, but still, that almost seems a little too easy.

Yippee for the return of Tara!!!

T

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Postby Willowlicious » Tue Feb 05, 2002 8:20 pm

I thought "Dead Things" was very well done. It made me uncomfortable and sad...and it made me think. I know a lot of people hate the B/S sexcapades this season. I've found the whole thing darkly fascinating. It seems like Buffy's belief that she came back "wrong" mixed with her despondency over being resurrected allowed her to explore the deepest, most violent realms of her Slayer/Killer roots without the burden of guilt. It's the side of Slayerdom that she's been fighting from the very beginning. Faith tried mightily to get her to embrace it and failed. But right before her death, Buffy told Giles she was convinced she was little more than a killer. The shadows were closing in on her. After her resurrection, for whatever reason, the darkest parts of her were the only things she could feel. As long as she believed she was "wrong" (and her friends bore some of that blame for bringing her back), Buffy felt she could indulge. Now that she doesn't have the belief that she came back wrong to excuse her actions, she's going to have to somehow make peace with this side of herself and learn to control it. Maybe she needs to learn moderation as much as Willow does. The dark part has always been with Buffy, now what is she going to do about it? Learning to neither fuck Spike nor beat the shit out of him might contain part of the answer.

Now for the best part of the episode: TARA, TARA, TARA! It was so great to see her. She was so sweet to Buffy and it was obvious she misses and loves Willow. It was kind of sad (but understandable) that Tara assumed Willow was up to no good when Buffy asked to see her. Knowing Willow (and her pouty reaction to Xander's suspicions in "Gone"), she would have been stung that Tara thought that. Then she would have faulted herself and thought, "Well, of COURSE, Tara would think that! I'm a jerk!" and her series-long insecurities would have caused a self-doubt parade in her head. I know it was a small remark, I was just strangely glad Willow didn't hear it. Instead, Tara warmly encouraged her when they ran into each other. Yay! It was wonderful to see them together if only for a moment. Sigh. And dear Willow, she is trying so hard and she is doing it on her own. She wants Tara back and is going about it the long, hard way for once. Again, yay!

The troika...oy. Warren is clearly a sick, dangerous man. His arc jives with the season's theme that the biggest monsters are inside us. Warren is a human and he is scarier than any demon. Andrew is too weak morally and emotionally to stand up to him. I think there is hope for Jonathan.

Finally, the ending scene with Tara and Buffy was extremely well acted and written. I thought SMG was very moving and convincing. Amber was also wonderful. It was such a nice touch that she chose to have Tara start to get misty at the sight of Buffy's pain. The whole thing almost made me cry!

Anyway, I thought it was an excellent episode.

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Postby maudmac » Tue Feb 05, 2002 8:26 pm

It's really nice to get a good episode after so long and the spew that was Doublemeat Palace. And next week looks good, too. (Course, I'm spoiled to hell and back.)

Everyone already has, or soon will, say pretty much everything I have to say about this episode.

But, I gotta say this: I've always kinda liked Spike and I think he truly does love Buffy. Of course, I like Buffy. I'm not sure if I think she loves Spike or not. But, whatever they feel/don't feel for each other, I am sooooooo sick and tired of them beating the shit out of each other!

So, why exactly is Buffy with Spike? I mean, what's going on inside her head? In the last scene with Tara, Buffy seemed to contradict herself. She asks why she lets him do those things to her, then she's upset with herself for "using him". Who's using whom?

Sigh. Tara...

Oh, one more thing. Did anyone else get the impression in the W/T scene outside the Magic Box when Willow said something like, "Y'know, in case you were checking..." that she really hoped that Tara WAS checking on her?

Enough for now. Take care, Kitties.

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby darvangi » Tue Feb 05, 2002 8:31 pm

Thanatopsis: Buffy didn't just remember Trina from hearing the name - she saw the face too. She saw the live face in I Was Made to Love You and the dead one here, so that plus hearing the name probably activated her wonder-girl powers.

Maudmac: yeah, I got the idea she wished Tara was checking on her, but my first impression was that she was afraid Tara was checking on her because she didn't trust her. I don't know - I can't decide. I hope it's that she was wishing.

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Postby Rally » Tue Feb 05, 2002 8:50 pm

quote:
Originally posted by maudmac:

Oh, one more thing. Did anyone else get the impression in the W/T scene outside the Magic Box when Willow said something like, "Y'know, in case you were checking..." that she really hoped that Tara WAS checking on her?

Yes, Willow's voice was kinda hopeful when she mentioned the checking up on her part. Then her crestfallen face when Tara's says she was just looking for Buffy.

*sigh* our girls...

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby TL983 » Tue Feb 05, 2002 8:52 pm

quote:
Originally posted by aladdin:
what was this really sad song that was playing in the scene after the Willow/Tara encounter? The scene where Spike prepares everything for his date with Buffy (is that right) and wears this unbottened shirt and when Buffy is patrolling in an attempt to avoid Spike?

The Song is "out of this world" by Bush. its on the "Golden State" CD.


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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby EricAlan69 » Tue Feb 05, 2002 9:07 pm

quote:
Originally posted by Willowlicious:
The dark part has always been with Buffy, now what is she going to do about it? Learning to neither fuck Spike nor beat the shit out of him might contain part of the answer.

That made me laugh out loud, Willowlicious- it's perfectly true, and follows what I've been saying all along: you can't just 'demonize' (I mean that in the real-world, metaphorical sense, not literally- weird to do that backwards!) Spike and call Buffy a victim, because this season's subtext is that *nothing* is Black and White anymore- everybody is a muddy mix of grey. Spike loves Buffy, in his own way, and he's certainly made progress from what he used to be, but there are still issues....just as there are with Buffy, who's been using Spike all season long. Remember well what Buffy was saying as she was beating the shit out of Spike in the alley- she was talking about herself, not him....

And, while it was great to see Will and Tara share a brief, awkward scene, the final Tara/Buffy scene blew me completely away. It was much more powerful than I anticipated, and AB and SMG work so very well off of one another that it's scary. I could watch an entire episode that consisted of nothing but a conversation between B. & T., because they're electrifying.

love and witchiechix,

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Postby JodiMnstr » Tue Feb 05, 2002 9:32 pm

I'm right there with everyone in loving that Tara was back, and that she had 3 really meaty scenes in the show. Nothing like coming back with gusto!

I was a little sad that Tara assumed that Buffy wanted to meet her outside of the house because of Willow messing up again. But I was glad that Buffy immediately corrected her about that and stood up for how Willow has been doing. What concerns me about that part of the scene though is that it implies that Tara hasn't been spending that much time with Dawn, since I figure Dawn might mention that Willow has given up the magic, especially after the magical housecleaning in "Gone."

There were a few things that I found to be great signposts to the return of our somewhat more carefree Willow. We got a classic -y ending with "unwindy" when they were talking about going to the Bronze. I also loved her comment about her last thread of dignity that she was desperately trying to hang on to. That little exchange made me smile since it was delivered with genuine self-referential humor that reminded me of some other classic Willow moments. And it was great seeing a full smile from Willow right before she got up and danced with Xander and Anya.

I thought the W/T scene was extremely well done. Their awkwardness and longing for each other fits so well with where they are in the process of finding their way back to each other. I'm in the camp that feels that Willow was hoping that Tara was checking up on her, and that she was disappointed when Tara said she was looking for Buffy. What I found really interesting though was that Tara seemed to sense that Willow was upset and it sort of flustered her a bit. I was thinking that Willow's comment was one of those classic ones where you really don't know how to respond because whatever you say is going to be wrong. I also thought that Willow got into a mini-babble mode and it seemed like she was trying to fill Tara in on how she was doing and address all the issues she figured Tara might have without being TOO obvious that it was what she was doing. The whole scene between the two of them was just so poignant and powerful. They are still so in love with each other. It truly fuels my hopes that they will get back together in the future.

The final scene between Buffy and Tara just blew me away. Tara was definitely the right person for Buffy to unburden herself to...she'll help Buffy find a place of equalibrium. It also struck me that Buffy seems to keep having to learn the lesson that hiding things and withdrawing from friends only makes everything harder. It reminded me of what she went through at the beginning of Season 3 when she wouldn't tell anyone that Angel had been restored before she killed him.

Finally...I loved seeing the return of quirky Tara humor! Her line about feeling the need to dedicate her productive commitment just struck me as being such a Tara thing to come up with. As was her comment about have a cellular suntan. Great stuff!

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Postby Italiangirl » Tue Feb 05, 2002 9:33 pm

Wow. Big stuff...IMPORTANT stuff happening in this episode, but first I just have this to say about the whole thing:

Taraknees.

Yes, I know. I'm a letch. I can't help it.

It's just, at the end, with Tara, with her little short skirt and knee socks and her sexy little knees poking out in between. I was mesmerized by those knees. This is only the second ever debut of Taraknee I believe, the first being in Family when she is on the bed wearing boxers right before Willow says she is essential. Tara NEVER wears short skirts. (Okay, there was that mini-scene in the ice cream truck in Restless, but I'm not counting that). Sooooo, all bow to the wonder and beauty that is Taraknee.

Ahem. I'm fine now. Really. {Italiangirl pauses to smooth out her shirt and clear her throat}

So anyway, about the episode. Ummmmm, wow! I have to say that I was so relieved to see Tara. I did think she was evoking season 4 Tara a little at first, which I was sad to see...her mannerisms and awkwardness around the scoobs. I was enjoying strong Tara, BUT she has every reason to feel awkward. I was a little sad that it seemed to suggest she wasn't seeing nearly as much of them as I had hoped. But, reunion coming soon. It's totally being set up. And that scene outside the magic box when she and Willow talked. Tara said "I...." and hesitated a minute before she said she was glad Will was doing better. I totally thought in that instant she would say she was proud of Willow. I could tell she was. Yay! Hopefully more goodness for our girls coming very soon like in the next episode or two.

About Buffy...oh Buffy. That whole episode was just heartbreaking. In the end I almost wanted her to be "wrong" somehow, too, just so she could have a justification for herself about the ways she has been acting. Regarding her communication with Tara, that whole scene reminded me of the scene in New Moon Rising when Willow broke down with Tara. I remember how Tara held Willow awkwardly and stroked her hair just like she did with Buffy. She knew there was nothing she could say to make it better, so she just communicated her love to Buffy. That scene worked wonderfully...but did anyone think it was lit strangely? Whatever. Anyway, Buffy really needs someone in her life right now who just shows her love with no strings or expectations. The only person that fits that bill right now is Tara. I know Buffy, and I know that this will inspire a fierce loyalty to and protectiveness of Tara in the future. I'm so happy about that. I have always wanted Buffy to be more vocal and obvious about her affection for Tara. Now she has a reason. And I really believe Tara will be good medicine for Buffy, and help her find a little peace.

What I don't like is that we still don't know where Tara is. I suppose the writers are doing that intentionally, to emphasize that nomatter where she is her home is with the scoobs, but I still don't like it. I want to see where she is staying, and if her bed is comfortable, and whether or not her neighbors are noisy while she tries to read or drink a cup of tea. *Sigh*

Finally, in keeping with the theme of Taraknee, I noticed something else. I love how Tara rarely sits "properly" in a chair. In the beginning when she was at the Doublemeat with Buffy, she folded herself into her chair indian style and sipped on her soda. She looked so comfortable. In most episodes where she is hanging around she sits this way, and I love the way she takes up space and makes it hers. It relaxes those in her company, I think. It is just another small clue that lets us know that Tara is about peace and calm and relaxation.

*Sigh* I love Tara.

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You taste so bitter, and so sweet
Darling, I could drink a case of you
And still be on my feet;
I would still be on my feet."
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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby Sheila » Tue Feb 05, 2002 9:35 pm

Yay, Tara's back!!!! *happy dance of joy*

Just this fact alone would be enough for me to love the episode, but there were other things too...

I don't know about you all, but I can take only so much more of B/S wild sexlife. I think the concept of the thunderstorm this is causing in Buffy's head and in the story line is valid and very interesting, but do they have to be so "visual" all the time? It just gets a little old, IMO. Ok, they can't even see each other and BAM... doing it. We got the message already.

I'm very curious to know how Buffy is going to handle this. Well, now she has the best friend someone could ask for to help her go through this... :-) Did someone think about how Willow will react when she finds out that Buffy confided this to Tara and not to her? Even if she's going through a lot herself, we all know our Willow can be quite the jealous gal sometimes...

The best part, they met FINALLY!!!!! :-) I think I wasn't even breathing during that scene... was I the only one who was afraid something was going to go wrong? Maybe one of them would say something she shouldn't?

I agree with another post that, when Willow said the "you're checking one me", she hoped Tara was really doing this... it would show Willow she still cared about her, even if only as a friend. As much as I loved the scene (and goddess, Willow was soooo hot on those clothes! I even thought of vamp Willow for a moment! Her hair, everything, was just breath taking. Of course, Tara was not behind a bit... and that smile at the end... *sigh* could melt iron...), I thought it was very, very sad. :-( Willow's face when Tara left was heart broking...

I'm kinda divided here. I think Tara was right, c'mon, it's the first time they met, she's still very, very hurt, and she doesn't really trust Willow (that was very clear when she asked Buffy at the DMP what Willow had done... that was other thing that got me... I think I got a little defensive here because we see how hard Willow is trying, but then everybody assumes that she's responsible for all the bad things that happen... it isn't fair, but then again, Willow wasn't fair to everybody when she did all those things with dark magic... wow, this is such a mess of feelings!). Tara clearly didn't want to get close to Willow or talk much. Willow, on the other side, wanted to talk (she even started babbling... how cute!), to do something, anything to make that moment last.

I know, I know. What did I expect? That they would just run to each other, kissing and hugging and everything would be all right??? uhmmmm... heck, yeah! My heart doesn't know what plots are, doesn't know who Joss is, and doesn't care about cliffhangers, ratings, etc. Also, it's completely blind and deaf, it just feels love. :-)

Being serious now... if possible... I thought it was an ok first meeting. Both of them survived and did well, kind of. At least, the next one (yay! next week!) will probably be a little less akward. And that's the way to go, little by little. Because, no matter what, tonight we definetely saw that they still love each other with all their hearts and there's NO WAY such a wonderful feeling can go wasted.

And also, now that Willow is apparently on the right way, couldn't Tara, being the wonderful soul that she is, think about start helping her a little bit? Remember Willow said she felt better when she was with her friends. Maybe it's asking Tara too much... I don't know. Maybe it wouldn't be fair to her. But, as much as I try, as rational as I try to be, I cannot see Tara not helping Willow, if she really feels that our redhead is on the right trail.

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby april » Tue Feb 05, 2002 9:41 pm

Tara's Back!!

and like willow, boy did we miss her! in early season 5, tara was often in a show for one or two scenes and had a few throwaway lines that had very little to do with the plot at all; she might as well not have been in some eps. and then there's season 6. tonight, tara had three scenes, none of which were terribly long, but man were they PIVOTAL!!

it is SO significant that tara is the one buffy goes to for help about coming back wrong, and in the end it's tara to whom buffy is able to break down and confess about spike. this just goes to show that tara has a much larger role on the show than just that of "willow's girlfriend". she has a closer relationship with buffy now than any other past or present "satellite scoobies", including anya.

in conclusion? yep, there's no doubt that tara's here to stay. can i have a woo and a hoo for that?

oh yeah, there were like, other parts of the show too. disturbing ones. spike is so conflicted. on the one hand, he truly loves buffy and wants to win her over, as evinced in the opening scene and the scenes when he tries to convince her not to throw her life away by going to the cops. on the other hand, during the scene on the balcony in the bronze he keeps telling her that she belongs in the darkness with him, which is not exactly going to win him big points with buffy. i think his feelings are just as confusing for him as they are for her.

warren is just bad news. the whole plot with katrina really made me feel icky. the one good thing that might have come out of it is that perhaps jonathan will start standing up to him now, or will eventually go to buffy for help stopping him.

dawn: again, give her something to do that's not throwing a tantrum and storming out of the room! she has a very one-dimensional character right now, which is disappointing for a show that did such a good job portraying teenagers in a complex, three-dimensional way.

getting back to willow and tara now... it was really sad to see tara automatically assume that the big problem buffy wanted to discuss had to do with willow's magic abuse. it made me even more glad for the w/t scene outside the magic box, where willow was able to begin earning back some of tara's trust. they are definitely on the road to reconciliation now, finally!

and again, i can't get past the final scene with buffy and tara. what an important piece of character development for both of them. buffy's finally found someone who she likes and respects (ie who has a soul and isn't dead) that she can be completely open with, and that person is... tara! i just can't get over what a great statement that is about tara's importance on the show. with that happy thought, i think i'll be off to bed. Tara's Back!!

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby Pixie » Tue Feb 05, 2002 9:44 pm

Just wanted to put in my 2 cents about Willow's "in case you were checking up on me" line. I don't think her feelings were one OR the other. I read it as BOTH shame/resentment ("doesn't it suck that you would feel the need to check up on me - I screwed up so badly") and hope ("do you still care about me enough to want to check up on me"). I think that, conflicting as it may sound, she would feel a flash of both emotions. Just MHO.

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby Kalita » Tue Feb 05, 2002 9:54 pm

Well, I'm very torn here.

On the one hand, I loved all the Tara scenes; it's very good that Buffy has somebody mature and understanding to confide in, and this should help her out of the pit she's dropped herself into. It's good that she and Willow got at least a bit of a talk in, and that Tara knows she's on the wagon and staying strong.

On the other hand. We had a lashed-out, remorseless murder of an innocent human. By a human.
Is real life scary? Yes, it is. This death has to be one of the worst this show has ever done, most certainly since Faith moved on; Warren is a sick animal that deserves whatever is most certainly headed his way. this act has affected me deeply, I'm finding; especially the attempted rape and mind-control ickiness immediately followed by a senseless killing. And no monster of the week to blame it on; Warren is a human with a soul and some kind of moral compass, however much his ego and ambition have suppressed it. Faith I understood because we knew what she went through, there was some justification for her dark acts.
Warren is a monster, plain and simple, and I must admit I'm dreading future episodes featuring the character.

Sorry, had to get that off my chest. All that along with the Spike moments had me very chewed up.

Thankfully, Angel was the show right afterward, and that was far more enjoyable...

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby Shaniezak » Tue Feb 05, 2002 10:15 pm

Well said, Kalita, and I think that was the import behind much of tonight's episode. "Real life will always be more terrifying than anything else they can throw at you" has been a watchword for this show since the beginning, and tonight we saw that in a much more vivid way. Wow.
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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby Wiccagrrl » Tue Feb 05, 2002 10:20 pm

Wow. One of the most intense Buffy eps ever. And yeah, the fact that the "monsters" are human makes it even more scary. I really liked Katrina. And what was done to her...so senseless, so cruel. Sadly, I'm not surprised Warren turned out to be this twisted. But Andrew...when he said his "We got away with murder. Cool" comment, my stomach just turned. Jonathan- well, maybe I'm in denial, but I thought I sensed more remorse and hesitation on his part. His "Yeah, cool" seemed less than convincing. Maybe he still has a bit of a conscience after all.

W/T...how thrilled am I to see Tara back and actually get a W/T scene? Woo and Hoo. And I loved the scene at the end, with Tara and Buffy.

B/S...such a complicated situation. I have to admit, I'm not really loving their relationship so far. And could we have had any more B/S sexcapades tonight? But Dead Things did kind of give me some second thoughts about them, and Buffy's feelings towards him. Still don't see much potential for long-term happiness there, but I am a bit more interested and hopeful about where this is going.

And Dawnie...sigh. Poor kid.

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby SiWangMu » Tue Feb 05, 2002 10:26 pm

I'm not up to all kindsa big analysis quite yet (besides, everyone else is doing a great job--that post detailing the parallels between Willow and Warren was just amazing!) but I just have to say:
Bad Buffy! Making me cry! Bad :ob:: Buffy!
I can't tell you all (and I probably don't need to) how powerful that last scene was. Tara was, of course!, wonderful, and it's nice to see someone really taking advantage of that (good taking advantage, not bad taking advantage). Doesn't this make Tara the only person Buffy has confided in other than Spike since she got back? Now I can't wait to see what Buffy does (her actions more than anyone's always surprise me). My thoughts about Spike get stranger and stranger... I can't help but feeling like the whole Bronze scene was more about convinging himself he was still evil than anything--remember when B said she only kissed him out of depression over Giles? and S said "Did it work? Did you convince yourself?"--it just seems like he really isn't a creature of the night anymore. He only inclines that way now when Buffy basically tells him to. I can't doubt, really, that he loves her--I only wonder about her loving him... it's pretty bizarre when I'm kinda hoping it's yes... this show does weird things to me.
Willow! Tara! I found myself going "Okay! All good now! You can get back together!" Although I know it's not that simple and shouldn't be. I was curious about the 32 days... is that since Amy in DoubleMeat? Since the relapse in Gone? I just wonder. So there's my tuppence.
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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby The Rose » Tue Feb 05, 2002 10:36 pm

SiWangMu,

Willow did not have a relapse in Gone. She starts to do magik twice but stops herself. In DMP, it is Amy who is doing the casting not Willow.

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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby SiWangMu » Tue Feb 05, 2002 10:45 pm

The Rose:
I'm sorry I was vague. I realize it wasn't her in Doublemeat, and I also realize that lifting the book (right before Xander walks in and accuses her (wrongly!)) in Gone was not particularly significant. If it were me, I probably wouldn't count either of those occasions as a real relapse, I'm simply curious exactly what Willow is using as her "starting date" for the 32 days comment. Does that make any more sense?
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Discussion – S6E13 – “Dead Things”

Postby juri-sempai » Tue Feb 05, 2002 10:48 pm

*puts on her glasses and grabs her prepared notes* Let's see...

W: "She's not around much these days. We kinda miss her."
T: "I'm sure she feels the same way."

basically equals -

W: "Tara, I don't see you around much anymore. I really miss you!"
T: "I so totally feel the same way. I miss you too."

I was delighted to see Tara's stutter return. I miss that little stutter when Tara's not around. It's so cute!

Watching X/A dance at the Bronze, yes, I'd pretty much have the same reaction as Willow. But I loved Willow and Anya dancing. It was funny.

I liked Katrina. She was tough. Wasn't going to take any crap from Warren. Even managed to kick some nerd butt. I really wish she could have stuck around. Stupid Warren... I shake my angry fist at you!! Uhhh not meant in a dirty way, thank you very much. ;p

I won't comment on the B/S stuff. Cuz I find it gross and disturbing.

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That final scene of "Dead Things" was truly brilliant.

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To me, what Dead Things illustrated a very interesting moral point. Anyone can do something bad. Either by accident or by choice, everyone is capable of doing something seriously wrong. And that in the end, it's the reaction to it that defines who that person is.

I completely agree that there were some strong parallels between Willow and Warren's actions. Even though Willow's came from a basically good, if arrogant and misguided place, and Warren's came as much from below his waist as beneath his chest. But there are eerie similarities.

Honestly, that bugged me a lot until toward the end of the episode and Buffy and Spike's big 'fight'. And then I understood that importance of the similarities of their actions was in the differences in their reactions. Willow accepted responsibility for what she did (eventually) and understood that she had to let Tara go. More importantly, she felt bad about it. And it seems clear she still does.

It's all about the conscience.

Why was it the big alley scene that made me think about that? Because that's exactly what Spike didn't, and couldn't, understand about Buffy's reaction and her need to turn herself in. Her guilt, her conscience demanded it. How could Spike understand that? He doesn't have a conscience.

The scene at the Bronze demonstrated that pretty clearly. He shows his 'love' by debasing her and trying to alienate her from her friends and the world and sees nothing wrong with it. No matter how pure or real his feelings are, the way he acts on them is always going to be tainted by the fact that he's a soulless demon.

And, of course, my own little happy dance for the reappearance of Tara!

It occured to me, when she was so quick to assume the worst of Willow in the beginning, that while everyone else has been around Willow, seeing the strides she's making and how hard she's fighting, Tara hasn't had that opportunity. All she knows is that the last time someone told her Willow was doing better, the next thing she knew Willow was staying out all night doing spells that left a guy without a mouth, visiting a magick dealer and then nearly got Dawn killed.

I think once she gets a chance to see Willow and be around her more, Tara can get a feel for the changes she's been going through and then can hopefully start to build up a little bit of trust in her again. The fact that there's now a sort of bond with Buffy that'll bring Tara back in closer with the group should really help with that. But Will's got a lot of ground to cover and in keeping with the theme for the season, she's going to have to do it the damn slow way.

As for the Tara/Buffy scenes. Wow. I think Buffy went to the one person who wouldn't judge her and then almost wished she would. And poor Tara being put in the position of trying to comfort Buffy when there was really nothing she could say or do that would make it all right. But sometimes being a good friend is just that, listening and offering a shoulder (or a knee) to cry on.

And Buffy, well, as much as her reaction to finding out she wasn't 'wrong' seemed like the end of the world for her, it actually made me kind of happy. Because what it meant was that what is wrong with Buffy is something that can be fixed. It can be healed.

Even the fact that she could cry like that, and have that kind of emotion showing is a sign that the healing might have already begun in subtle ways. It's part of that whole range of human emotions thing that she was having such a hard time with. It sucks that the bad stuff has to come first when the pleasurable stuff Spike is seducing her with seems so much easier. But then, as with the rest of it, that's probably the point.


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So glad to see Tara back. I'm almost as glad to see a return of the angst and excitement and drama that make this show so great.

I didn't have any trouble with the idea of Buffy immediately thinking of Warren when she heard the name Katrina. She knew he was around and trying to make trouble for her, plus she knows he's morally clueless and capable of anything. She also knew the events in the woods were hardly straightforward.

We've seen this before: Buffy can completely cloud her own judgement by overreacting and being miss drama queen, then as soon as she starts thinking instead of reacting things immediately become clear.

I thought it was very sweet when Buffy came to Tara for help and she was all concerned that Willow might have done something. It showed that Tara's worried about Willow and thinking about her. I just wish they would show them missing each other more. When Oz left Willow was a wreck. It only makes sense that losing the woman she left Oz for would be even harder.

I'm hoping that this episode marks the beginning of a W/T arc dealing with their relationship. It was beginning to feel like they're playing down their relationship, just like in some on S5 when they would be in a scene together and hardly acknowledge each other while the other couples were being all couple-y. They run so hot and cold it makes me wonder if some of the writers have trouble writing them.

On the magic as addiction metaphor, I've never thought that the solution to Willow's problem was in learning to stay away from magic completely but rather in learning to use it without it controlling her. I think the best thing for her would be to take up magic again, but slowly and carefully. She needs to learn to respect it, not run away from it.

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posted February 06, 2002 01:20               
I don't see the parallel between Willow and Warren.

If you want to make a parallel you should look at spike and the buffybot. It's trying to have sex with someone who won't have it with you.

Angry Tara in All the Way was far from being over with Willow. She was upset at Willow but she hadn't broken up with her. Willow's motivations were not for sexual reasons. The invasion of one's body is something that really can't be compared to anything else. You can see by Tara's reaction to Willow now to know that it was not the same. Oh I am not saying that what Willow did was good or insignificant, I am just saying it's a completely different thing and it's kind of offensive to compare the two. Warren and his buddies who would wish to make women sex slaves deserve a fate worse than death (sorry if I offend any jonathan lovers). Willow's actions did not come from similar intentions.

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Oh yeah, I had one more thought. Spike has been trying so hard to get Buffy in touch with her darker side, assuming I guess that is the best way to keep a hold on her.

But the thing is that the 'dark side' of the slayer is going to go a heck of a lot deeper than just being into kinky sex. Buffy's a very violent creature by nature. That's just an innate part of what she is.

And Spike getting pounded like that is in some ways his reaping what he has sown with Buffy. It reminds me of Dracula and her saying something like "How do you like my darkness now?"


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But remember, Buffy told her mom that Spike likes getting beaten up: "For him that's like third base." He's much rather have Buffy pounding on him than ignoring him.

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Originally posted by Ari:
Why was it the big alley scene that made me think about that? Because that's exactly what Spike didn't, and couldn't, understand about Buffy's reaction and her need to turn herself in. Her guilt, her conscience demanded it. How could Spike understand that? He doesn't have a conscience.

I hope this isn't off-topic, but I just wanted to comment: My impression was that Spike does understand why she wants to turn herself in, he's just not willing to let her commit a more-or-less self-destructive act. It may not have been the right thing for him to do, but I don't think there is right or wrong for Spike. All I can tell is that what he did in the alley, to persuade her, distract her, just stop her from taking herself away, he did for the right reasons.

Edited...finally read the FAQ, not sure if I should remove the quote above, leaving it for now, but anyway I had more to say (sorry, y'all).
As far as the parallels between Willow and Warren go, there are ways that the comparison works and ways it doesn't. The point about the sexual motivation is a good one, but I feel there is a comparison to be made in that, unlike Spike's Buffybot, both Warren and Willow actually changed the person they were targeting. Like someone said earlier, "Changing things to their liking," not creating some sort of holodeck effect (which is how I think of Spike's robot). Honestly, the robot is what Jonothan and Andrew, at least, were really looking for. When they found out Katrina and Warren were connected, they reacted with horror, because it made her a real person to them and started to drive home the wrong-ness of their actions. Jonothan and Andrew wanted a robot, but Warren wanted to supernaturally and superficially "fix" his "relationship" with Katrina.
The vital difference, of course, is that Warren is the monster Willow can never be.

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To me the thing that really clinched a parallel between Willow and Warren was in Tara/Katrina's reactions to it.

And I mean that literally. When I heard Katrina's reactions to the nerds there were echoes to the Tabula Rasa scene between Willow and Tara.

"What's the matter with you?"

And the way they seemed surprised at the idea of being accused of rape, as Willow was when Tara used the word 'violate'.

In fact that scene reminded me so much of the TR scene, it literally gave me chills (and not in a good way).


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Hunh, I guess my reaction was a little different than most folks in that I didn't *love* "Dead Things" - I guess I was just disturbed by a lot of it. I was a bit doubtful at first about the suggestion by xita and others that the Big Bad this season may be misogyny, but after this ep, I'm really seeing it. Even having read the wildfeed, I wasn't at all prepared for how intense and awful the Warren/Katrina in the bedroom and B/S in the Bronze scenes were...Spike especially, he was just so malevolent and dominating. He doesn't love her, that was just about power. I've always been one to find Spike's puppy-dog moments endearing, but this really reminded me of how little he's progressed. He can't hurt people because of the chip, so he's trying to take advantage of what little power he does have, just to exert domination over someone...once a vamp, always a vamp, in some important respects.

And the troika, what can I say, that was just really gross. I was kinda worried in the beginning 'cause the musical cues in their first workshop scene were all boppingly clarinet-y in that generic "here comes the funny" way, despite the grossness of what they were contriving to do. But then the score was appropriately menacing during the Warren and Katrina scene (*shudder*). I agree that Jonathan was the least enthusiastic at the end, we'll probably likely see a break from him later in the season...I love that he's been on the show since the beginning, it's a weird kind of continuity with his character.

But then, lots of Tara goodness. Her scenes were so so strong, and I just love the way she was supportive and non-judgmental in the last scene...she's such a grounding influence for all the scoobies, I'm looking forward to having her around more next week...and the week after, and the week after, and the week after!

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posted February 06, 2002 01:37               
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Originally posted by SiWangMu:
I hope this isn't off-topic, but I just wanted to comment: My impression was that Spike does understand why she wants to turn herself in, he's just not willing to let her commit a more-or-less self-destructive act. It may not have been the right thing for him to do, but I don't think there is right or wrong for Spike. All I can tell is that what he did in the alley, to persuade her, distract her, just stop her from taking herself away, he did for the right reasons.

I'm not really disputing that. I understand Spike was honestly trying to help, in his own way.

All I was really commenting on was the big point that was made about how he couldn't even begin to understand why she would even want or need to try and turn herself in. Even in the way he casually joked about someone he had eaten even in the scene between them at the very beginning, it's pretty clear Spike has no sense of remorse or guilt about taking lives.


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posted February 06, 2002 01:40               
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Originally posted by darvangi:

Maudmac: yeah, I got the idea she wished Tara was checking on her, but my first impression was that she was afraid Tara was checking on her because she didn't trust her. I don't know - I can't decide. I hope it's that she was wishing.


Darin I got the feeling that Willow was afraid Tara was checking on her but she was disappointed that Tara wasn't there for her. You know just to see her or talk to her. Tara seemed genuinely happy to see Willow doing better and more importantly she wanted to make sure Willow knew that. sigh.

I really can't talk about the other stuff because it is entirely too disturbing, and not really the bs stuff but the Katrina thing. I really am not much for violence against women and their use for strict sexual uses. These guys crossed some serious lines, especially Warren, and there is no love motivation, there is only obsession and sexual compulsion. I am finally glad that they are getting to the issues of bs the last few episodes seem like just a lead up to this. Finally Buffy can face how she really feels and not hide behind the "she came back wrong" excuse. And this doesn't mean that she's going to realize oh she does love him. We'll have to see how it plays out.

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posted February 06, 2002 02:18            
Can I just stop for a minute and say how terrific the actors on BTVS are? Amber B. can change her smile into so many different shades of feeling: Wistful, sad, proud, supportive, etc. SMG crying at the end and Amber B.'s reaction to it--just stellar acting. So much like it really would be if your ex-partner's best friend who was usually so stoic suddenly started sobbing into your lap.
Although I don't love the B/S stuff, I thought SMG showed just the right amount of helpless disgust and sorrow with herself when Spike was pointing out that he thinks she isn't one of her friends any longer (at the Bronze). I don't know what will happen with the storyline, but it is so intriguing, because Spike loves Buffy's goodness and yet he loves badness (like with Druscilla) too. If Buffy became bad all the way, would he be bored with her? She wouldn't be the same person.
I like the way MT plays her pitifully small amount of lines, and I wish they would give her more to do. It was so sad at the magic shop when they were talking about the type of demon Buffy fought, and Dawn was standing so still and stiff in the background, not part of the group, wondering if she has been able to weather yet another threat of her family being taken away from her.
I think the scene outside the police station with Buffy hitting Spike was truly her hitting rock bottom, and I think that allowed her emotional release with Tara. It was important that they allowed Spike to have a beaten human face in the end, so that Buffy could finally realize that she can hurt him and that she needs to dig herself out of the hole she is in.

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posted February 06, 2002 02:41               
I personally cannot see the connection between what Willow did to Tara and what Warren did to Katrina. Sure, both were total misuses of magical power BUT the motivations behind it are totally different.

Willow was trying to fix things. That's basically what she's always done with her magic. And she usually goes in head first without giving it any thought. 'I'm a helper. I'm making things better for the people I love.' Bad arguement with Tara, someone she totally loves (and totally loves her, btw)... Tara was pissed off, didn't want to talk about it... and Willow just figured she could fix it like she's always done when her friends were in need.

Warren's use of that magic ball thing was entirely selfish and for purely sexual intentions. Plus the fact that he also intended to SHARE her with the other nerds. That's not something you do with someone you love. It was all about control with him... isn't that usually how it is with rapists? Also he felt NO remorse for what he did. 'Oh we killed her. Let's feed her to some demons. Let's blame it on Buffy.'

He didn't face up to his mistake. Willow did, when finally confronted with it. When finally she was shown that she wasn't 'fixing' but hurting. She knew what she did was wrong.

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posted February 06, 2002 02:56               
Okay, this is how I see it:

For what it's worth, for a while there, Willow and Warren were on pretty parallel tracks. But they've since diverged--Willow's conscious decision to stop abusing her magickal abilities proves that. Warren, on the other hand, has continued to use his abilities to do worse and worse things.

Which is a pretty chilling glimpse of the kind of path down which Willow might have gone, had Tara not broken up with her, had she not nearly gotten Dawn killed, had she not had friends to help get her back on track.

Demons and hellgods can't be held responsible for all the evil things that happen in the Buffyverse. Some of the most devastating acts in the series' history have happened at the hands of human beings. Every single person can be capable of doing such things--Faith, who became the Mayor's personal hitwoman; Buffy, who went to hunt Faith down with the full knowledge that it would make her a killer. Anyone is capable of it, but each person's own decisions can determine whether or not capability will become fact.

There's a line from Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets (okay, so sue me, I just finished re-reading it) that comes to mind: "It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities."

Willow chose not to go down that path; Warren's choice, on the other hand, seems to have set him down it irreversibly.

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posted February 06, 2002 02:56               
If Willow had gone out and put the forget spell on Tara after Tara had left in order to get Tara back, then it would have been more in line with what Warren did to Katrina. As things turned out, you could argue that Willow was on the road that led to where Warren's going, although much less farther along, but she has now gotten off that road entirely.

And hey, I checked out the USEnet tonight - long known as "W/T Hatred Central" - and there was a small chorus of voices saying how great it was to see Tara again and how valuable Tara has become to the gang. I'm seeing Joss's evil plan - first we had OMWF, then Tabula Rasa, and now Dead Things, all giving Tara prominent positive roles to play. It's Joss's evil scheme to win over the masses. I like it!

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posted February 06, 2002 01:01               
That final scene of "Dead Things" was truly brilliant.

I take my metaphorical hat off to Amber's acting talent.

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To me, what Dead Things illustrated a very interesting moral point. Anyone can do something bad. Either by accident or by choice, everyone is capable of doing something seriously wrong. And that in the end, it's the reaction to it that defines who that person is.

I completely agree that there were some strong parallels between Willow and Warren's actions. Even though Willow's came from a basically good, if arrogant and misguided place, and Warren's came as much from below his waist as beneath his chest. But there are eerie similarities.

Honestly, that bugged me a lot until toward the end of the episode and Buffy and Spike's big 'fight'. And then I understood that importance of the similarities of their actions was in the differences in their reactions. Willow accepted responsibility for what she did (eventually) and understood that she had to let Tara go. More importantly, she felt bad about it. And it seems clear she still does.

It's all about the conscience.

Why was it the big alley scene that made me think about that? Because that's exactly what Spike didn't, and couldn't, understand about Buffy's reaction and her need to turn herself in. Her guilt, her conscience demanded it. How could Spike understand that? He doesn't have a conscience.

The scene at the Bronze demonstrated that pretty clearly. He shows his 'love' by debasing her and trying to alienate her from her friends and the world and sees nothing wrong with it. No matter how pure or real his feelings are, the way he acts on them is always going to be tainted by the fact that he's a soulless demon.

And, of course, my own little happy dance for the reappearance of Tara!

It occured to me, when she was so quick to assume the worst of Willow in the beginning, that while everyone else has been around Willow, seeing the strides she's making and how hard she's fighting, Tara hasn't had that opportunity. All she knows is that the last time someone told her Willow was doing better, the next thing she knew Willow was staying out all night doing spells that left a guy without a mouth, visiting a magick dealer and then nearly got Dawn killed.

I think once she gets a chance to see Willow and be around her more, Tara can get a feel for the changes she's been going through and then can hopefully start to build up a little bit of trust in her again. The fact that there's now a sort of bond with Buffy that'll bring Tara back in closer with the group should really help with that. But Will's got a lot of ground to cover and in keeping with the theme for the season, she's going to have to do it the damn slow way.

As for the Tara/Buffy scenes. Wow. I think Buffy went to the one person who wouldn't judge her and then almost wished she would. And poor Tara being put in the position of trying to comfort Buffy when there was really nothing she could say or do that would make it all right. But sometimes being a good friend is just that, listening and offering a shoulder (or a knee) to cry on.

And Buffy, well, as much as her reaction to finding out she wasn't 'wrong' seemed like the end of the world for her, it actually made me kind of happy. Because what it meant was that what is wrong with Buffy is something that can be fixed. It can be healed.

Even the fact that she could cry like that, and have that kind of emotion showing is a sign that the healing might have already begun in subtle ways. It's part of that whole range of human emotions thing that she was having such a hard time with. It sucks that the bad stuff has to come first when the pleasurable stuff Spike is seducing her with seems so much easier. But then, as with the rest of it, that's probably the point.


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posted February 06, 2002 01:10                To me, what Dead Things illustrated a very interesting moral point. Anyone can do something bad. Either by accident or by choice, everyone is capable of doing something seriously wrong. And that in the end, it's the reaction to it that defines who that person is.

I completely agree that there were some strong parallels between Willow and Warren's actions. Even though Willow's came from a basically good, if arrogant and misguided place, and Warren's came as much from below his waist as beneath his chest. But there are eerie similarities.

Honestly, that bugged me a lot until toward the end of the episode and Buffy and Spike's big 'fight'. And then I understood that importance of the similarities of their actions was in the differences in their reactions. Willow accepted responsibility for what she did (eventually) and understood that she had to let Tara go. More importantly, she felt bad about it. And it seems clear she still does.

It's all about the conscience.

Why was it the big alley scene that made me think about that? Because that's exactly what Spike didn't, and couldn't, understand about Buffy's reaction and her need to turn herself in. Her guilt, her conscience demanded it. How could Spike understand that? He doesn't have a conscience.

The scene at the Bronze demonstrated that pretty clearly. He shows his 'love' by debasing her and trying to alienate her from her friends and the world and sees nothing wrong with it. No matter how pure or real his feelings are, the way he acts on them is always going to be tainted by the fact that he's a soulless demon.

And, of course, my own little happy dance for the reappearance of Tara!

It occured to me, when she was so quick to assume the worst of Willow in the beginning, that while everyone else has been around Willow, seeing the strides she's making and how hard she's fighting, Tara hasn't had that opportunity. All she knows is that the last time someone told her Willow was doing better, the next thing she knew Willow was staying out all night doing spells that left a guy without a mouth, visiting a magick dealer and then nearly got Dawn killed.

I think once she gets a chance to see Willow and be around her more, Tara can get a feel for the changes she's been going through and then can hopefully start to build up a little bit of trust in her again. The fact that there's now a sort of bond with Buffy that'll bring Tara back in closer with the group should really help with that. But Will's got a lot of ground to cover and in keeping with the theme for the season, she's going to have to do it the damn slow way.

As for the Tara/Buffy scenes. Wow. I think Buffy went to the one person who wouldn't judge her and then almost wished she would. And poor Tara being put in the position of trying to comfort Buffy when there was really nothing she could say or do that would make it all right. But sometimes being a good friend is just that, listening and offering a shoulder (or a knee) to cry on.

And Buffy, well, as much as her reaction to finding out she wasn't 'wrong' seemed like the end of the world for her, it actually made me kind of happy. Because what it meant was that what is wrong with Buffy is something that can be fixed. It can be healed.

Even the fact that she could cry like that, and have that kind of emotion showing is a sign that the healing might have already begun in subtle ways. It's part of that whole range of human emotions thing that she was having such a hard time with. It sucks that the bad stuff has to come first when the pleasurable stuff Spike is seducing her with seems so much easier. But then, as with the rest of it, that's probably the point.


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So glad to see Tara back. I'm almost as glad to see a return of the angst and excitement and drama that make this show so great.

I didn't have any trouble with the idea of Buffy immediately thinking of Warren when she heard the name Katrina. She knew he was around and trying to make trouble for her, plus she knows he's morally clueless and capable of anything. She also knew the events in the woods were hardly straightforward.

We've seen this before: Buffy can completely cloud her own judgement by overreacting and being miss drama queen, then as soon as she starts thinking instead of reacting things immediately become clear.

I thought it was very sweet when Buffy came to Tara for help and she was all concerned that Willow might have done something. It showed that Tara's worried about Willow and thinking about her. I just wish they would show them missing each other more. When Oz left Willow was a wreck. It only makes sense that losing the woman she left Oz for would be even harder.

I'm hoping that this episode marks the beginning of a W/T arc dealing with their relationship. It was beginning to feel like they're playing down their relationship, just like in some on S5 when they would be in a scene together and hardly acknowledge each other while the other couples were being all couple-y. They run so hot and cold it makes me wonder if some of the writers have trouble writing them.

On the magic as addiction metaphor, I've never thought that the solution to Willow's problem was in learning to stay away from magic completely but rather in learning to use it without it controlling her. I think the best thing for her would be to take up magic again, but slowly and carefully. She needs to learn to respect it, not run away from it.

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posted February 06, 2002 01:20                So glad to see Tara back. I'm almost as glad to see a return of the angst and excitement and drama that make this show so great.

I didn't have any trouble with the idea of Buffy immediately thinking of Warren when she heard the name Katrina. She knew he was around and trying to make trouble for her, plus she knows he's morally clueless and capable of anything. She also knew the events in the woods were hardly straightforward.

We've seen this before: Buffy can completely cloud her own judgement by overreacting and being miss drama queen, then as soon as she starts thinking instead of reacting things immediately become clear.

I thought it was very sweet when Buffy came to Tara for help and she was all concerned that Willow might have done something. It showed that Tara's worried about Willow and thinking about her. I just wish they would show them missing each other more. When Oz left Willow was a wreck. It only makes sense that losing the woman she left Oz for would be even harder.

I'm hoping that this episode marks the beginning of a W/T arc dealing with their relationship. It was beginning to feel like they're playing down their relationship, just like in some on S5 when they would be in a scene together and hardly acknowledge each other while the other couples were being all couple-y. They run so hot and cold it makes me wonder if some of the writers have trouble writing them.

On the magic as addiction metaphor, I've never thought that the solution to Willow's problem was in learning to stay away from magic completely but rather in learning to use it without it controlling her. I think the best thing for her would be to take up magic again, but slowly and carefully. She needs to learn to respect it, not run away from it.

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I don't see the parallel between Willow and Warren.

If you want to make a parallel you should look at spike and the buffybot. It's trying to have sex with someone who won't have it with you.

Angry Tara in All the Way was far from being over with Willow. She was upset at Willow but she hadn't broken up with her. Willow's motivations were not for sexual reasons. The invasion of one's body is something that really can't be compared to anything else. You can see by Tara's reaction to Willow now to know that it was not the same. Oh I am not saying that what Willow did was good or insignificant, I am just saying it's a completely different thing and it's kind of offensive to compare the two. Warren and his buddies who would wish to make women sex slaves deserve a fate worse than death (sorry if I offend any jonathan lovers). Willow's actions did not come from similar intentions.

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posted February 06, 2002 01:20                I don't see the parallel between Willow and Warren.

If you want to make a parallel you should look at spike and the buffybot. It's trying to have sex with someone who won't have it with you.

Angry Tara in All the Way was far from being over with Willow. She was upset at Willow but she hadn't broken up with her. Willow's motivations were not for sexual reasons. The invasion of one's body is something that really can't be compared to anything else. You can see by Tara's reaction to Willow now to know that it was not the same. Oh I am not saying that what Willow did was good or insignificant, I am just saying it's a completely different thing and it's kind of offensive to compare the two. Warren and his buddies who would wish to make women sex slaves deserve a fate worse than death (sorry if I offend any jonathan lovers). Willow's actions did not come from similar intentions.IP: LoggedAriFloating Rose


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posted February 06, 2002 01:20               


Oh yeah, I had one more thought. Spike has been trying so hard to get Buffy in touch with her darker side, assuming I guess that is the best way to keep a hold on her.

But the thing is that the 'dark side' of the slayer is going to go a heck of a lot deeper than just being into kinky sex. Buffy's a very violent creature by nature. That's just an innate part of what she is.

And Spike getting pounded like that is in some ways his reaping what he has sown with Buffy. It reminds me of Dracula and her saying something like "How do you like my darkness now?"


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posted February 06, 2002 01:20                Oh yeah, I had one more thought. Spike has been trying so hard to get Buffy in touch with her darker side, assuming I guess that is the best way to keep a hold on her.

But the thing is that the 'dark side' of the slayer is going to go a heck of a lot deeper than just being into kinky sex. Buffy's a very violent creature by nature. That's just an innate part of what she is.

And Spike getting pounded like that is in some ways his reaping what he has sown with Buffy. It reminds me of Dracula and her saying something like "How do you like my darkness now?"


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But remember, Buffy told her mom that Spike likes getting beaten up: "For him that's like third base." He's much rather have Buffy pounding on him than ignoring him.

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posted February 06, 2002 01:28               
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Why was it the big alley scene that made me think about that? Because that's exactly what Spike didn't, and couldn't, understand about Buffy's reaction and her need to turn herself in. Her guilt, her conscience demanded it. How could Spike understand that? He doesn't have a conscience.

I hope this isn't off-topic, but I just wanted to comment: My impression was that Spike does understand why she wants to turn herself in, he's just not willing to let her commit a more-or-less self-destructive act. It may not have been the right thing for him to do, but I don't think there is right or wrong for Spike. All I can tell is that what he did in the alley, to persuade her, distract her, just stop her from taking herself away, he did for the right reasons.

Edited...finally read the FAQ, not sure if I should remove the quote above, leaving it for now, but anyway I had more to say (sorry, y'all).
As far as the parallels between Willow and Warren go, there are ways that the comparison works and ways it doesn't. The point about the sexual motivation is a good one, but I feel there is a comparison to be made in that, unlike Spike's Buffybot, both Warren and Willow actually changed the person they were targeting. Like someone said earlier, "Changing things to their liking," not creating some sort of holodeck effect (which is how I think of Spike's robot). Honestly, the robot is what Jonothan and Andrew, at least, were really looking for. When they found out Katrina and Warren were connected, they reacted with horror, because it made her a real person to them and started to drive home the wrong-ness of their actions. Jonothan and Andrew wanted a robot, but Warren wanted to supernaturally and superficially "fix" his "relationship" with Katrina.
The vital difference, of course, is that Warren is the monster Willow can never be.

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Why was it the big alley scene that made me think about that? Because that's exactly what Spike didn't, and couldn't, understand about Buffy's reaction and her need to turn herself in. Her guilt, her conscience demanded it. How could Spike understand that? He doesn't have a conscience.

I hope this isn't off-topic, but I just wanted to comment: My impression was that Spike does understand why she wants to turn herself in, he's just not willing to let her commit a more-or-less self-destructive act. It may not have been the right thing for him to do, but I don't think there is right or wrong for Spike. All I can tell is that what he did in the alley, to persuade her, distract her, just stop her from taking herself away, he did for the right reasons.

Edited...finally read the FAQ, not sure if I should remove the quote above, leaving it for now, but anyway I had more to say (sorry, y'all).
As far as the parallels between Willow and Warren go, there are ways that the comparison works and ways it doesn't. The point about the sexual motivation is a good one, but I feel there is a comparison to be made in that, unlike Spike's Buffybot, both Warren and Willow actually changed the person they were targeting. Like someone said earlier, "Changing things to their liking," not creating some sort of holodeck effect (which is how I think of Spike's robot). Honestly, the robot is what Jonothan and Andrew, at least, were really looking for. When they found out Katrina and Warren were connected, they reacted with horror, because it made her a real person to them and started to drive home the wrong-ness of their actions. Jonothan and Andrew wanted a robot, but Warren wanted to supernaturally and superficially "fix" his "relationship" with Katrina.
The vital difference, of course, is that Warren is the monster Willow can never be.

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posted February 06, 2002 01:29               


To me the thing that really clinched a parallel between Willow and Warren was in Tara/Katrina's reactions to it.

And I mean that literally. When I heard Katrina's reactions to the nerds there were echoes to the Tabula Rasa scene between Willow and Tara.

"What's the matter with you?"

And the way they seemed surprised at the idea of being accused of rape, as Willow was when Tara used the word 'violate'.

In fact that scene reminded me so much of the TR scene, it literally gave me chills (and not in a good way).


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posted February 06, 2002 01:29                To me the thing that really clinched a parallel between Willow and Warren was in Tara/Katrina's reactions to it.

And I mean that literally. When I heard Katrina's reactions to the nerds there were echoes to the Tabula Rasa scene between Willow and Tara.

"What's the matter with you?"

And the way they seemed surprised at the idea of being accused of rape, as Willow was when Tara used the word 'violate'.

In fact that scene reminded me so much of the TR scene, it literally gave me chills (and not in a good way).


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posted February 06, 2002 01:36               


Hunh, I guess my reaction was a little different than most folks in that I didn't *love* "Dead Things" - I guess I was just disturbed by a lot of it. I was a bit doubtful at first about the suggestion by xita and others that the Big Bad this season may be misogyny, but after this ep, I'm really seeing it. Even having read the wildfeed, I wasn't at all prepared for how intense and awful the Warren/Katrina in the bedroom and B/S in the Bronze scenes were...Spike especially, he was just so malevolent and dominating. He doesn't love her, that was just about power. I've always been one to find Spike's puppy-dog moments endearing, but this really reminded me of how little he's progressed. He can't hurt people because of the chip, so he's trying to take advantage of what little power he does have, just to exert domination over someone...once a vamp, always a vamp, in some important respects.

And the troika, what can I say, that was just really gross. I was kinda worried in the beginning 'cause the musical cues in their first workshop scene were all boppingly clarinet-y in that generic "here comes the funny" way, despite the grossness of what they were contriving to do. But then the score was appropriately menacing during the Warren and Katrina scene (*shudder*). I agree that Jonathan was the least enthusiastic at the end, we'll probably likely see a break from him later in the season...I love that he's been on the show since the beginning, it's a weird kind of continuity with his character.

But then, lots of Tara goodness. Her scenes were so so strong, and I just love the way she was supportive and non-judgmental in the last scene...she's such a grounding influence for all the scoobies, I'm looking forward to having her around more next week...and the week after, and the week after, and the week after!

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posted February 06, 2002 01:36                Hunh, I guess my reaction was a little different than most folks in that I didn't *love* "Dead Things" - I guess I was just disturbed by a lot of it. I was a bit doubtful at first about the suggestion by xita and others that the Big Bad this season may be misogyny, but after this ep, I'm really seeing it. Even having read the wildfeed, I wasn't at all prepared for how intense and awful the Warren/Katrina in the bedroom and B/S in the Bronze scenes were...Spike especially, he was just so malevolent and dominating. He doesn't love her, that was just about power. I've always been one to find Spike's puppy-dog moments endearing, but this really reminded me of how little he's progressed. He can't hurt people because of the chip, so he's trying to take advantage of what little power he does have, just to exert domination over someone...once a vamp, always a vamp, in some important respects.

And the troika, what can I say, that was just really gross. I was kinda worried in the beginning 'cause the musical cues in their first workshop scene were all boppingly clarinet-y in that generic "here comes the funny" way, despite the grossness of what they were contriving to do. But then the score was appropriately menacing during the Warren and Katrina scene (*shudder*). I agree that Jonathan was the least enthusiastic at the end, we'll probably likely see a break from him later in the season...I love that he's been on the show since the beginning, it's a weird kind of continuity with his character.

But then, lots of Tara goodness. Her scenes were so so strong, and I just love the way she was supportive and non-judgmental in the last scene...she's such a grounding influence for all the scoobies, I'm looking forward to having her around more next week...and the week after, and the week after, and the week after!

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I hope this isn't off-topic, but I just wanted to comment: My impression was that Spike does understand why she wants to turn herself in, he's just not willing to let her commit a more-or-less self-destructive act. It may not have been the right thing for him to do, but I don't think there is right or wrong for Spike. All I can tell is that what he did in the alley, to persuade her, distract her, just stop her from taking herself away, he did for the right reasons.

I'm not really disputing that. I understand Spike was honestly trying to help, in his own way.

All I was really commenting on was the big point that was made about how he couldn't even begin to understand why she would even want or need to try and turn herself in. Even in the way he casually joked about someone he had eaten even in the scene between them at the very beginning, it's pretty clear Spike has no sense of remorse or guilt about taking lives.


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posted February 06, 2002 01:37               
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Originally posted by SiWangMu:
I hope this isn't off-topic, but I just wanted to comment: My impression was that Spike does understand why she wants to turn herself in, he's just not willing to let her commit a more-or-less self-destructive act. It may not have been the right thing for him to do, but I don't think there is right or wrong for Spike. All I can tell is that what he did in the alley, to persuade her, distract her, just stop her from taking herself away, he did for the right reasons.

I'm not really disputing that. I understand Spike was honestly trying to help, in his own way.

All I was really commenting on was the big point that was made about how he couldn't even begin to understand why she would even want or need to try and turn herself in. Even in the way he casually joked about someone he had eaten even in the scene between them at the very beginning, it's pretty clear Spike has no sense of remorse or guilt about taking lives.


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Maudmac: yeah, I got the idea she wished Tara was checking on her, but my first impression was that she was afraid Tara was checking on her because she didn't trust her. I don't know - I can't decide. I hope it's that she was wishing.


Darin I got the feeling that Willow was afraid Tara was checking on her but she was disappointed that Tara wasn't there for her. You know just to see her or talk to her. Tara seemed genuinely happy to see Willow doing better and more importantly she wanted to make sure Willow knew that. sigh.

I really can't talk about the other stuff because it is entirely too disturbing, and not really the bs stuff but the Katrina thing. I really am not much for violence against women and their use for strict sexual uses. These guys crossed some serious lines, especially Warren, and there is no love motivation, there is only obsession and sexual compulsion. I am finally glad that they are getting to the issues of bs the last few episodes seem like just a lead up to this. Finally Buffy can face how she really feels and not hide behind the "she came back wrong" excuse. And this doesn't mean that she's going to realize oh she does love him. We'll have to see how it plays out.

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Maudmac: yeah, I got the idea she wished Tara was checking on her, but my first impression was that she was afraid Tara was checking on her because she didn't trust her. I don't know - I can't decide. I hope it's that she was wishing.


Darin I got the feeling that Willow was afraid Tara was checking on her but she was disappointed that Tara wasn't there for her. You know just to see her or talk to her. Tara seemed genuinely happy to see Willow doing better and more importantly she wanted to make sure Willow knew that. sigh.

I really can't talk about the other stuff because it is entirely too disturbing, and not really the bs stuff but the Katrina thing. I really am not much for violence against women and their use for strict sexual uses. These guys crossed some serious lines, especially Warren, and there is no love motivation, there is only obsession and sexual compulsion. I am finally glad that they are getting to the issues of bs the last few episodes seem like just a lead up to this. Finally Buffy can face how she really feels and not hide behind the "she came back wrong" excuse. And this doesn't mean that she's going to realize oh she does love him. We'll have to see how it plays out.

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Can I just stop for a minute and say how terrific the actors on BTVS are? Amber B. can change her smile into so many different shades of feeling: Wistful, sad, proud, supportive, etc. SMG crying at the end and Amber B.'s reaction to it--just stellar acting. So much like it really would be if your ex-partner's best friend who was usually so stoic suddenly started sobbing into your lap.
Although I don't love the B/S stuff, I thought SMG showed just the right amount of helpless disgust and sorrow with herself when Spike was pointing out that he thinks she isn't one of her friends any longer (at the Bronze). I don't know what will happen with the storyline, but it is so intriguing, because Spike loves Buffy's goodness and yet he loves badness (like with Druscilla) too. If Buffy became bad all the way, would he be bored with her? She wouldn't be the same person.
I like the way MT plays her pitifully small amount of lines, and I wish they would give her more to do. It was so sad at the magic shop when they were talking about the type of demon Buffy fought, and Dawn was standing so still and stiff in the background, not part of the group, wondering if she has been able to weather yet another threat of her family being taken away from her.
I think the scene outside the police station with Buffy hitting Spike was truly her hitting rock bottom, and I think that allowed her emotional release with Tara. It was important that they allowed Spike to have a beaten human face in the end, so that Buffy could finally realize that she can hurt him and that she needs to dig herself out of the hole she is in.

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posted February 06, 2002 02:18             Can I just stop for a minute and say how terrific the actors on BTVS are? Amber B. can change her smile into so many different shades of feeling: Wistful, sad, proud, supportive, etc. SMG crying at the end and Amber B.'s reaction to it--just stellar acting. So much like it really would be if your ex-partner's best friend who was usually so stoic suddenly started sobbing into your lap.
Although I don't love the B/S stuff, I thought SMG showed just the right amount of helpless disgust and sorrow with herself when Spike was pointing out that he thinks she isn't one of her friends any longer (at the Bronze). I don't know what will happen with the storyline, but it is so intriguing, because Spike loves Buffy's goodness and yet he loves badness (like with Druscilla) too. If Buffy became bad all the way, would he be bored with her? She wouldn't be the same person.
I like the way MT plays her pitifully small amount of lines, and I wish they would give her more to do. It was so sad at the magic shop when they were talking about the type of demon Buffy fought, and Dawn was standing so still and stiff in the background, not part of the group, wondering if she has been able to weather yet another threat of her family being taken away from her.
I think the scene outside the police station with Buffy hitting Spike was truly her hitting rock bottom, and I think that allowed her emotional release with Tara. It was important that they allowed Spike to have a beaten human face in the end, so that Buffy could finally realize that she can hurt him and that she needs to dig herself out of the hole she is in.
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posted February 06, 2002 02:41               
I personally cannot see the connection between what Willow did to Tara and what Warren did to Katrina. Sure, both were total misuses of magical power BUT the motivations behind it are totally different.

Willow was trying to fix things. That's basically what she's always done with her magic. And she usually goes in head first without giving it any thought. 'I'm a helper. I'm making things better for the people I love.' Bad arguement with Tara, someone she totally loves (and totally loves her, btw)... Tara was pissed off, didn't want to talk about it... and Willow just figured she could fix it like she's always done when her friends were in need.

Warren's use of that magic ball thing was entirely selfish and for purely sexual intentions. Plus the fact that he also intended to SHARE her with the other nerds. That's not something you do with someone you love. It was all about control with him... isn't that usually how it is with rapists? Also he felt NO remorse for what he did. 'Oh we killed her. Let's feed her to some demons. Let's blame it on Buffy.'

He didn't face up to his mistake. Willow did, when finally confronted with it. When finally she was shown that she wasn't 'fixing' but hurting. She knew what she did was wrong.

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posted February 06, 2002 02:41                I personally cannot see the connection between what Willow did to Tara and what Warren did to Katrina. Sure, both were total misuses of magical power BUT the motivations behind it are totally different.

Willow was trying to fix things. That's basically what she's always done with her magic. And she usually goes in head first without giving it any thought. 'I'm a helper. I'm making things better for the people I love.' Bad arguement with Tara, someone she totally loves (and totally loves her, btw)... Tara was pissed off, didn't want to talk about it... and Willow just figured she could fix it like she's always done when her friends were in need.

Warren's use of that magic ball thing was entirely selfish and for purely sexual intentions. Plus the fact that he also intended to SHARE her with the other nerds. That's not something you do with someone you love. It was all about control with him... isn't that usually how it is with rapists? Also he felt NO remorse for what he did. 'Oh we killed her. Let's feed her to some demons. Let's blame it on Buffy.'

He didn't face up to his mistake. Willow did, when finally confronted with it. When finally she was shown that she wasn't 'fixing' but hurting. She knew what she did was wrong.

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posted February 06, 2002 02:56               


Okay, this is how I see it:

For what it's worth, for a while there, Willow and Warren were on pretty parallel tracks. But they've since diverged--Willow's conscious decision to stop abusing her magickal abilities proves that. Warren, on the other hand, has continued to use his abilities to do worse and worse things.

Which is a pretty chilling glimpse of the kind of path down which Willow might have gone, had Tara not broken up with her, had she not nearly gotten Dawn killed, had she not had friends to help get her back on track.

Demons and hellgods can't be held responsible for all the evil things that happen in the Buffyverse. Some of the most devastating acts in the series' history have happened at the hands of human beings. Every single person can be capable of doing such things--Faith, who became the Mayor's personal hitwoman; Buffy, who went to hunt Faith down with the full knowledge that it would make her a killer. Anyone is capable of it, but each person's own decisions can determine whether or not capability will become fact.

There's a line from Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets (okay, so sue me, I just finished re-reading it) that comes to mind: "It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities."

Willow chose not to go down that path; Warren's choice, on the other hand, seems to have set him down it irreversibly.

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posted February 06, 2002 02:56                Okay, this is how I see it:

For what it's worth, for a while there, Willow and Warren were on pretty parallel tracks. But they've since diverged--Willow's conscious decision to stop abusing her magickal abilities proves that. Warren, on the other hand, has continued to use his abilities to do worse and worse things.

Which is a pretty chilling glimpse of the kind of path down which Willow might have gone, had Tara not broken up with her, had she not nearly gotten Dawn killed, had she not had friends to help get her back on track.

Demons and hellgods can't be held responsible for all the evil things that happen in the Buffyverse. Some of the most devastating acts in the series' history have happened at the hands of human beings. Every single person can be capable of doing such things--Faith, who became the Mayor's personal hitwoman; Buffy, who went to hunt Faith down with the full knowledge that it would make her a killer. Anyone is capable of it, but each person's own decisions can determine whether or not capability will become fact.

There's a line from Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets (okay, so sue me, I just finished re-reading it) that comes to mind: "It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities."

Willow chose not to go down that path; Warren's choice, on the other hand, seems to have set him down it irreversibly.

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posted February 06, 2002 02:56               


If Willow had gone out and put the forget spell on Tara after Tara had left in order to get Tara back, then it would have been more in line with what Warren did to Katrina. As things turned out, you could argue that Willow was on the road that led to where Warren's going, although much less farther along, but she has now gotten off that road entirely.

And hey, I checked out the USEnet tonight - long known as "W/T Hatred Central" - and there was a small chorus of voices saying how great it was to see Tara again and how valuable Tara has become to the gang. I'm seeing Joss's evil plan - first we had OMWF, then Tabula Rasa, and now Dead Things, all giving Tara prominent positive roles to play. It's Joss's evil scheme to win over the masses. I like it!

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posted February 06, 2002 02:56                If Willow had gone out and put the forget spell on Tara after Tara had left in order to get Tara back, then it would have been more in line with what Warren did to Katrina. As things turned out, you could argue that Willow was on the road that led to where Warren's going, although much less farther along, but she has now gotten off that road entirely.

And hey, I checked out the USEnet tonight - long known as "W/T Hatred Central" - and there was a small chorus of voices saying how great it was to see Tara again and how valuable Tara has become to the gang. I'm seeing Joss's evil plan - first we had OMWF, then Tabula Rasa, and now Dead Things, all giving Tara prominent positive roles to play. It's Joss's evil scheme to win over the masses. I like it!

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Remember the Kitten Board Mantra: "Joss is nuts about Tara, Willow/Tara and Amber!"
(...and Marti's rather fond of them, too...)

"You haven’t seen the last of Tara and Willow, that’s for sure." - Marti Noxon, March 2002 edition of Dreamwatch

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