by sweet satin lover » Tue May 27, 2008 5:14 am
I wish I had had the guts to say ( last night)
Don't patronize me or my Nephew's intelligence, just because you want a baby and havent got one ( she told me she was broody) or havent got a boyfriend and are feeling a bit left out of things there's no need to be bitchy about it. You always interrupt me when I am talking and talk over my voice so I have to be quiet. Your ex used to stick up for me when you did that at least he would let me talk! Lucas does know who I am and he does care I believe that family are all connected in a special way and ok so he doesnt understand the word Auntie yet but he knows me. I had to listen to you and talk and talk about your nephew all the time and still do, I thought it was something you could share with me...we could share as friends, sometimes I think you need to think about the way that you say things, people have put up with it long enough. There's no need to rub in the fact that I don't have a baby either. You make me feel small and I hate that, I would rather have someone I care about very much on the phone rather than you. Its fine that you didn't invite me out on friday but what gets to me is why did you brag about it?
You are always telling people shit about me and making everything a drama and about you and its not.
What I said "Hey...there's no need to be like that....." ( trails off awkward silence)
What I meant to say (this morning to the same "friend")
The reason why I am not going out with you today is taht last night you p's me off and belittled me yet again and I just cant be bothered to hang out with you, you havent ben supportive of my diet or OCD either, you are a sucky friend.
What I said "Yeah I am sorry I won't be coming out today because of my OCD and stress"
My mother always says that if a person cant say something nice, and be kind then they should not say anything at all.